How can I relax and enjoy being happy?

Go do some charity work. Give Blood! Do something that is not about you. Work on those Karma points and you will sleep better.

Trust that your future is in God's hands.

Who says you do not deserve happiness? Forgive yourself if you need to, and stop declaring self fulfilling prophesies. Faith works. If you believe and can picture something in your mind - it will happen just as you expected it -- here is the deal though --good or bad. Start thinking positive and seeing yourself living happy for the rest of your life and it will happen.

What you need to realize is that you deserve to be happy. It is like your waiting for the other shoe to drop so as to prove to yourself that it couldnt last. Well, it can last, and it will last, as long as you let it. If this si something that is all consuming then perhaps a visit to your doctor is needed. Relax, take a deep breath and enjoy your life. You deserve happiness.

quit worrying about something that may never even happen...you're worrying about things that don't even exist....

try meditating, after some time and practice it'll lhelp calm your mind...you say your husband treats you like a princess...make sure you're treating him like a prince and you two should have a happy life together

you do deserve it, so start acting like you do! do for him what he does for you. stop worrying so much - you don't want these poisonous thoughts to drive you insane.

everyone is a little insecure, but don't let it get to you. he sounds like he's a great guy and if you make each other happy, there's nothing to worry about.

Join a group.

Find a talk group.

Occupy your mind with future functions.

A womens group at a church, public library, or Avon groups would be good for you.

LIVE TODAY LIKE ITS YOUR LAST.NOBODY HAS THE ANSWER OF TOMORROW,NONE OF US MAY BE HERE.IF SOMETHING DOES HAPPEN,WERE ALL HERE TO HELP AND SUPPORT YOU.DONT WASTE YOUR LIFE ON THOSE THINGS>JUST LIVE IT THE BEST WAY YOU CAN?

Believe in yourself, it's that simple. :)