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What does it mean when my gf said this to me? "ur completely smoothering me and r/ships never last like that."

Update:

Thanks for all the responds.. I'm going overseas to visit my family tomorrow night. She isn't coming... I guess that will give her sometime. After I come back.. I'll give her space as much as she wants . tata

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Well it kind of sounds self explanatory to me......basically "back off and chill out"

  • 1 decade ago

    That means you do not give her the space to be herself!

    And she is right about smothering relationships, they never do

    last! This does not mean she wants to break-up YET, it means

    that you need to get over your jealous self, let her talk to her

    friends, both male and female, and you need to stop calling

    her EVERY DAY!!!

    Then, and only then, will you have a chance to keep enjoying her

    fine company. If you cannot handle this, then you should just

    start looking for a different girl now!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It means give her what she wants. Stay away for awhile and see what she does. If she wants you to be around more often she will call and beg you to hang with her. If not, and she wants the relationship to end, she won't call. That is the easiest way to deal with anything. Give the others what they want and they will decide if that is what was best.

  • 1 decade ago

    It means "give me a little space". Are you calling her constantly? Quit it. You don't have to know what she's doing every minute of every day, that is too much...

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  • 1 decade ago

    You are coming on to strong just mellow out and let her lead for a little bit. If things don't get better then it wasn't meant to be.

  • 1 decade ago

    Let her have her own space. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Basically means go hang yourself with a celibate rope.

  • 1 decade ago

    it means to get up out her space and let her breathe!!! that's how women r!!! u cant just be all in there space all the time. we just need time to our selves once in a while to gather our thoughts.

  • 1 decade ago

    It means back-off. She needs a little "me" time.

  • Shadow
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    It means you are completely smothering her and relationships like that DO NOT last.

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