THERE are many beautiful things that happen in my life,why I would always remember the ugly things?

i have the same problem, i guess because it was a bad feeling or experience, it makes a scar in our hearts and never goes away. you can try to hide your scars with creams and other things, but they are still there, for your happy memories, they are always there with you too, they just blend in better into your heart, but your brain never forgets........................

I guess it won't pop in your mind if your not even thinking about it. Don't indulge yourself with the past. Past is past, though it should not be buried. You must learn from them and so whenever something reminds them of you, just try to think of the things you realized and learn because of that event, and I believe it would not be too painful to remember them.

Because the ugly things usually create more intense emotions.

BECAUSE YOU WANT TO EXPERIENCE UGLY THINGS, BECUZ AS U SAID THERE ARE MANY BEAUTIFUL THINGS HAPPENING IN YOUR LIFE SO YOU FEEEL GUILTY ABOUT IT SO YOU WANT TO REMEMBER UGLY THINGS. BU T IF I WERE YOU I WILL JUST BE TAHANKFUL FOR ALL THE BEAUTIFUL AND UGLY THINGS THAT'S HAPPENING AND ENJOY LIFE AS IT IS.

honey, calm down, I may be able to help you. It's because they ether traumatized you or you can't forgive the people that did it to you. you may want to go to a doctor about this too. Good luck honey.

thts human nature.We r so greedy tht we ll remeberr all the misfortunes and bad incidents in our life.Never even care for the good things affter it is over.

the ugly things may contain someone that u love and now u cant see him/her

the bad things made the most impression on you mind or sub. mind

you have to think more positively to get rid of negative thoughts

because you won't learn from your mistakes?

dude, you need to get out more.