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Here To Help asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

Someone please please please help me with this!!!!?

Okay... so I am ignoring this guy, because he thinks he's all that and I'm kinda trying to teach him a lesson... anyway this is the same guy that I used to be in LOVE with... Should I keep ignoring him? It's having the effect on him I want it to.

At the same time I like this other boy. He's my best friend's ex. But she says she doesn't care if I like him. And I don't know how to find out if he likes me. He's stupid in the way that he won't let his true feelings show. But other than that he's nice, sweet, hott... you know.

AND my best friend is getting on my nerves. I think I'm jealous of her. She's a blonde, lost a ton of weight this summer, and seems to win every competition that I'm also in. What do I do??

If you answer any question, will you please tell me which one you're answering? It should be obvious, but that'd really help... THANKS!!!!

Update:

I might also say...my best friend and the boy I liked were boyfriend/girlfriend when they were only eleven.....

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  • nadjadiamond
    1 decade ago
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    1. tell the ex dude WHY youre ignoring him, then he might either get the picture.. or try to change his annoying ways... and if he does, you'll know that he changed for you so YOU have the power.

    2. best friends ALWAYS care if you date one of their ex's. and why would you want to be with a guy.. who, regardless of your friend's feelings, has a history with your friend?? what if you leave the 2 of them alone? how do you know they dont still like each other? what if he's with you just to get to her?

    3.she's not your best friend if you envy her. thats not what friends do to each other. friendship is mutual. so... stop being jealous of her, and stop trying to date her ex's.

  • chattanoogamollyblue
    1 decade ago

    Tell the guy who thinks he is all that that he aint all that and to leave you alone. Be yourself around the hottt guy who doesnt let his feelings show. Let him know you would like to be friends and work up from there. Your best friend is not your best friend if you are jealous of her sucesses. A real friend would be happy for her and find something to do apart from her that you really like. So you can excell without her competition.

  • JEMER
    1 decade ago

    Sounds like you are very young.

    Never get with your best friend's ex. Would you want her getting with the guy you used to be in Love with?

  • phoenixchickNY
    1 decade ago

    Stop playing games with your ex and clear everything up. second if your friend is ok with the fact that you like her ex then go for it girl friend. what do you have to loose?

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  • nv
    1 decade ago

    Would you like to be treated that way? or is because now you like someone else? Who is more important your friend? or herex? WALK AWAY GIRL.

  • corkers3
    1 decade ago

    Stop playing games and give it up...if you have to go to all this trouble he's not that into you

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