Only girls answer?

what is the question here?

If I love him I would stay with him and become a doctor.

What? I would say you should have got a job in the first place and not depended on him. First off, if something happens or that hubby is controlling then it only his money you depend on. Second, it takes two to keep an income going. My hubby wants me to quit work when I have a baby. I might stay a year with our child because of the develpment but even then I would want to work at least part time. Wow, I'd say most men don't like being married for the money. Besides our money goes to bills and what isn't spent is budgeted out for each of us. It's not my money and it isn't his money. We each have our accounts but trust each other to have accounts together.

well. there are a lot of things I don't know about this "hypothetical" person! Does she work, or clean the house? Is the child theirs, hers, or his?If the child is hers, then I suggest doing a background check on him, and putting the child with family until I could figure out what he's up to...This is pretty strange, had he been an Exec. for long? I'd sit him down one day and just say, " Look, I just kinda want to know where you're coming from with this whole Mr. Mom thing.. and explain to him that one of the things that made him such a good catch is that you were looking for someone who was really going places in life..that's one of the things that attracted you to him in the first place...Hell, if you wanted to struggle w/ a kid, you can do that on your own. If it's his kid, then I'd evaluate the child's age, social situation, and see where he's coming from..Either way I'd be fairly supportive of it, but I'd definately talk to him about where his heads at...

My husband actually stays home with our daughter during the day. i am a working mom and he is a stay at home dad. A lot of guys now are staying home while the women work. And I think it is wonderful I like being able to work and earn money!!! It's not the 1950's anymore men help the women with the kids now days!!!!

Well it's becoming increasingly popular and more acceptable these days.

I wouldn't mind, if i loved the guy enough and he wanted to stay at home and do that work then so be it. So long as he doesn't turn into a couch potato i'll be happy.

But 2 incomes are always better than just one. Plus... i would hate to stay at home all the time!

It would be better if they both have jobs to begin with. In this way if one decides to quit, the other will still have income coming in. And if he decides to stay home then he better take care of the house chores.

i would love it, but i would not keep it that way a man is a man and he needs to work! and the woman should take care of the house and the kids

That is not a problem. Every individuals has their own preference in life. The important thing is everyone is happy with their own lifestyle. So what is the problem?

sit him down and ask him 'what is going on with him????' sounds like a very weird midlife crisis. I dont think its ever okay for one person in a relationship to make a huge decision that effects them both, he seems to see it as a pass time.

So whats the problem are u marrying the guy fr his money ?

it doesnt matter what role he plays does it?

I wouldn't really care because if I truely love him then I wouldn't mind what he does and I would be there to support him in any decisions which he makes