Do you think that he has aids?

Sounds like tooo much drama for me. If you know that he's bi - I am glad that he told you and didn't lie about it - why would you have unprotected sex with him in the 1st place?? And the 2 of you need to go get tested together and LOOK at each other's test results. l

Mistake number 1: unprotected sex with an individual who engages in risky sexual practices.

For the both of your sakes, get tested now!!!!! If either of you have HIV, the sooner you get on the medication, the better quality of life you will have. You should also use a condom. Just because he doesn't ejaculate, doesn't mean that there isn't any seminal fluid there. Remember that ALL bodily fluids can spread the HIV infection.

GET TESTED! And tell him no more sex until he gets tested and shows you the results. No if ands or buts. And you can get AIDS even if he doesn't 'finish'. If it is 'in' you can get AIDS. Yes, I know it is not a given and it does require more than touch, but if he is 'in' you it is possible whether he ejaculates or not. And no matter what..no sex without a condom and preferable a spermicide that helps protect too.

If I were you I would ask to see the test results. But You should get tested right away. Dont you know hiv/aids means you die?

Do you really want to die for some lame boyfriend/dink toucher?

Seeing that he has been with other men/women. You should have protected sex. That's like having sex with everyone they have had sex with. Be very careful. This is your life you are gambling with. Not trying to sound harsh, but it doesn't matter whether he ejaculates on not.

you guys sound you are open to each other which is a good thing,ask him to go for bloods test - you do yours and he does his.No body would accept that he or she has that disease because he scared he might loose you and again to know some one health status is to get tested only not but discussing him

In all that drama who would know but no reason to stay in a situation like that were this would even be an issue.

Not ejactulating has nothing to do with spreading disease. His pre *** or your personal lube can carry disease in it. How do you think women spread it?

to much lies from everyone, dump him, get someone better, then go get a HIV test, the test is scarry but you will feel lots better knowing the truth.

With as many sex partners he's had...get tested. It's not smart to have unprotected sex, ever...If someone were to tell me that they got tested I would make them give me proof of their test, to make sure.

You both need HIV tests done and you need to see his results. Use a condom from now on.