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Topaz asked in Society & CultureEtiquette · 1 decade ago

My coworker wants to sleep with her ex's friend for revenge. Should she?

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  • undir
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    No. It won't do anyone any good. She won't feel better afterwards (probably just worse). She'd be using his friend to get back at her ex, which is wrong. She'd be childish for wanting revenge rather than just moving on with her life. Plus she's be disrespecting herself by doing this.

  • Paul R
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Absolutely Not, Apart From The Obvious That Groomingdiva Said, What Did Your Ex's Friend To Deserve Something Like That! If He's Really Her Ex, She Needs To Get Over It And Get On With Her Life And Not Go Ruining Other Peoples!

    Harsh Words I Know But You'll Thank Me Some Day.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    No, because she would be using him in one of the worst ways a person can use another person. Which is inexcusable, because she would risk causing an incredible amount of hurt to both her ex and to his being-used friend.

    I don't know what her ex did to her, but whatever it was, it's no excuse to misuse the beautiful gift of sex this way. And it's no excuse to use her ex's friend that way.

    If a guy used a girl that way, he'd be called a pig, and rightly so. Well, there's no place for double standards here -- it's just as wrong for a girl to use a guy that way.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    No she should sleep with me instead,we could make a video and mail it to him.

    Seriously,it's her EX and he'll probably won't care,it will just make her look like a skank,revenge sex doesn't work,they're already broke up.She should just move on and find a nice guy,that could be her revenge.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Absolutely no! The unfortunate thing about revenge is that it bites the biter as much as the one bitten, not to mention the fact that sleeping with someone you're not married to and then walking away can cause damage too.

  • 1 decade ago

    Noooooooo

  • 1 decade ago

    I would say no. She will end up being the loser in the situation.....even if she gets her revenge at first, it is going to come back to haunt her.

  • 1 decade ago

    No. She shouldn't as what would be the difference between her n him..the reason for her doing so is mostly that he cheated ......n she has no good feelings towards him ....after sometime she herself will feel sorry n ashamed for having done this in anger....the best thing would be to make the ex feel more cheap by being good urself...................make him feel like ****!!!!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Only if she is a vindictive, skanky, slutbag. Otherwise, its time to grow up and stop using sex for revenge. How lame and immature.

  • 1 decade ago

    If she slept with her ex's buddy, he'd probably hi-five him for getting a free lay! He doesn't care about her anymore or he would still be with her. She would be a schmuck for doing this and regret it for the rest of her life.

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