this is only for women...not men ok?

Some women do become more clingy when they think they are losing the attention of the man that they love. However, every woman has a point at which they decide that they are better than the man who is treating them wrong (not calling, etc) and they will get over him (and quite possibly get really angry in the process).

If someone has told you to act this way to win back a woman don't do it. The best way to a woman's heart is to be honest with them and create a situation in which she can be honest with you without fear.

If on the other hand, you are acting this way to get rid of a woman, don't. Be direct. Tell her it is over, there is no hope of getting back together. Mean it when you say it. Don't be mean but be firm. Explain why it is over and why you know in your heart that the relationship cannot EVER work for you.

What goes around comes around!!

You mistreat the girl by being a jerk to her and not calling her and not being with her. You give the message that you dont want her. So yeah she might think, whats up with him, why is he acting this way. The girl will say....Screw him, he is just like all the other jerks. And she moves on.

Then the guy wants her back, says sorry...blah blah blah. And girl says nope!

No not at all. That is more of a "guy" thing........guys like the chase and the hunt, women don't go for that type of game. If a guy did that to me I would be hurt and not want to have anything to do with me, it would be a giant red flag that this guy is too into himself and would never have anything to give to a relationship. I wouldn't play that game with any woman u care about or want a future with.

If he wanted to be with you that is where he would be.

If he can ignore you then he is "just not that into you".

There are two books out that I think you might want to read. One is called "They Call it Break Up Because it is Broken" the second one is "He Just Wasn't that into You". I read both of them about a month ago. When you are done reading them you look at yourself and it seems like all your questions aren't there anymore.

No, I don't think that is true. It might be true for some girls, but the majority of women do not act this way. If a man wants to act like a jerk, we can spend our time elsewhere...

on some occassion i love it when men play hard to get, when they take things slowly and not go texting me or calling me telling me they love me when they dont even know who am i yet, i only care for men who take the time to get to know me more, the real me and not someone who confesses love at the first moment, when they dont say sorry anymore thats the time i start forgetting them, and when im no longer the center of attention, i dont bother the guy anymore, i just assume that he is not that in to me and ill go find someone who is genuinely interested in me

That's utterly redicuous. If someone ignores you and treats you like dirt, there's no way to find such actions attractive and want him. That's simply stupid and crazy. So that might be attractive to someone who is equally sick.

I don't see why you don't want men to answer. The only thing that could happen is that you would gain more insight.

This is a game call hard to get.It works sometime.

he is a jerk! get rid of him! He has no respect for you if he is acting that way...there is more fish in the sea.

You go fishing girl and have fun!!!