Should I buy my fiance (male) a wedding band and ask him if he is ready to get married?

I just don't understand you younger people who live together, have children and then get upset if the man doesn't want to make a commitment and get married. I mean, you've given him everything there is to get for him. So WHY would he want to get married? What's in it for him now??? You made a huge mistake when you didn't make him marry you before the child was born. You can buy him a band and ask him, but I doubt he's going to marry you, if he hasn't wanted to marry you yet. FIANCE means he's promised to marry you. But you didn't hold him to it. You didn't set a date way back before you had a child. I'd give him a calendar and tell him to pick a date for your wedding. Tell him it's time and it's the right thing to do for your child, to have married, committed parents. If he doesn't choose a date, you won't have spent the money on a ring for nothing.

I think you are relying to much on what others think. you know the situation, and you are not a mind reader, so you are going to have to talk to him sooner or later, but I would suggest that unless you are prepared for a no answer you should not force the issue, simply tell him you want to get married and can he see this happening, sorry there is no easy solution as this should have been discused a long time ago before achild came along. it is called being responsible for your actions

Force and coercision for marriage always will end badly. If he's ready then he'll propose willingly, and it will be a happy occasion that springs from the natural progression of love. He knows your ready I assume and I'm sure he knows it would make you happy. Now all you can do is wait or leave him. Anything else will result in him resenting you for the rest of your life. You don't want that do you?

Unless there's problems with your relationship, I don't see an issue. You're already living together with a child. Marriage is just a nice way to confirm your commitment to each other. My husband would have loved for me to propose. It would have taken the pressure off him to buy the engagement ring.

I believe the different posters, asking the two of your mothers and fathers to foot this cost should not be an option in any respect. Are you 2 finding out to purchase something of your wedding ceremony by making use of yourselves? perhaps you like low value rings, it looks like your wedding ceremony is tremendously high priced already, in case you are able to no longer have the money for the rings on acceptable of this they are too high priced. do no longer forget which you cash merges once you get married so in case you do no longer at the same time arise with the money for to purchase rings on your individual you would be able to would desire to contemplate reducing on some different issues too to have the money for abode and invoice money.

I wouldn't do that, I would ask if he wants to get married and be a real family and tell him what you just said to us, but don't buy him a ring, that would screw things up!

Well ......that's one approach...just be prepared for whatever the answer....what will you do if he says no???? Before you ask, think about how you will respond to the many ways he could answer...good luck....tell him that's what you want for christmas!

yeah if u both are ready to get married