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If you're both married but to other people ...?

lets say you were dating years ago, neither claimed love but you left on good terms (due to family matters) now some 15 or so years later you're in touch, feeling like you've never been apart ... can you be friends or is it destined to become an affair ? That old thing from When Harry Met Sally ... can male and female relationship exist without sex somehow involved ?

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    You know that you would never stop at being "just friends" when you have a long history together. You are playing with fire here. Do not go any farther with this relationship. You are both destroying your families.

  • pat z
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    If I remember "When Harry Met Sally", they eventually ended up in bed together, so sex finally entered their "friendship" (and Harry would've liked it to have happened much earlier than it did!).

    You are married. He is married. Do you remember your vows to your husband (to love and honor and so on...)? Those weren't just pretty words but a promise you made to each other. How do you feel about promise breakers?

    You don't say how old you are or how long you've been married or whether or not you have any children. Does he have children? How many lives will be impacted if you choose to get involved with this guy again? Is it really worth it?

    If you're having problems in your marriage (or feel bored or find it has become a little "stale", too routine, whatever...), the place to resolve those issues is in IN YOUR MARRIAGE.

    Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    Stay out of temptation's way!Just speak when you run into each other.Don't try to be best buddies!It will only bring sorrow & regret since you are married to other people.

    I would slap my husband if he tried to have women friends like that.

  • LC
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    It's kinda hard but it's not exist.

    I guess it depends on the past.

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  • Dr Dee
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Kinda hrad but it is theoretically possible.

  • 1 decade ago

    your married so stick with the program at hand

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