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am i the only one who dreams about there EX 3 years later?

I lived with a girl three years ago, loved her passonatly with all my heart, we split up after she got a job 4 states over, i am now with a girl and we have been dating for almost 2 years and i had a nughtmare about them two being in the same room and putting me on the spot to choose. Is it natural to still love someone even though you have not seen them in 3 years

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Nope your not the only one who does that. People will do that no matter how or why the situation ended. I believe when you come to love someone you develop a soul tie with the person (a spritual tie). It's biblical if you want to look further into it. I believe it goes even deeper if you have intercourse with that person.

  • 1 decade ago

    It better be natural, cuz I have the same thing happen. Dreams about an ex even though the current girlfriend is sleeping right beside you. Freaks me out sometimes. Still, I'd never go back to that b@#@h.

  • jude
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    there was probably something u have not worked out, something u wanted to say to her that u didn't get to say. maybe u still love her and think of her. yes it is natural to keep loving someone years after the relationship ended. just a dream, nothing to worry about unless u choose to make something happen.

  • St.Jeb
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Yes it is natural to dream about your ex. You have lot of deep seeded things burnt into your sub-consience and you will probably have dreams like this all the time when you are with another. What the deal is, you have standards you would like to have with another person, the dream is telling you that you are not sure if the person you are with has those standards.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I still have dreams about a girl i knew in 9th grade!

    I'm 45 years old!

    Perfectly natural.

  • 1 decade ago

    Many people still dream or even think about their ex's. It is human nature to think or have memories of them.

  • 1 decade ago

    absolutely, it's normal. since there is unfinished issues that you have with your ex. or in your case circumstanced made the split. it's natural to feel what you feel. time will dim the intensity of how you feel about your ex.

  • 1 decade ago

    I dream of my exwife all the time.

    Something about a plastic bag, a long rope, a knife, and a shovel...

    It's perfectly normal man, you're alright.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yes..you loved her and nothing can solve a broken heart. you will probably always love her no matter if you were to marry or something else b/c she will always have a piece in your heart!

  • 1 decade ago

    dude i have dreams about people i haven't seen since i was like 6 or so.

    Source(s): i know what ya mean
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