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Unfair and in Love. What do we follow?, Oura hearts? Or reality ?

Reality in my situation is that itll never work out and im scared that im building my own path of pain for myself bc i know it can never really be for me and him... what do you do? Follow destiny or wake up bc we live in reality world?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    My reality and my heart mirror each other and destiny to me is about meaning what you say and saying what you mean. It seems like you have thought hard and after weighing your situation have concluded the differences can not be overlooked or reconciled. Remaining in an unhappy relationship after you have reached this conclusion will create more friction and leave both of you battered and bruised with emotions weighed down by regret, blame and pity. Sometimes love is knowing when to let go.

  • Nasubi
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    I can totally relate...

    Follow destiny...play it out. I like to believe that True Love conquers all (and I still hold that hope in my situation). Realize you're setting yourself up for heartbreak, but

    "It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all."

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