31 weeks pregnant and I came home while my bf was watching a porno...?

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I came home yesterday, maybe fifteen minutes earlier than usual and all his stuff was in the living room but he wasn't.  I found the dvd cover of his Bigg Busty Babes on the floor.  He rushed back up the hallway, pulling his zipper up and asking why I was home early!! He was annoyed, like I can't come home until it was the right time!! He was giggling and asking why I didn't call to say I was coming early...he said it was ridiculous that I was "all hurt" over him watching porn.  I was frankly ok until I saw him zipping his pants.  The thought of him fondling himself while watching that when he doesnt come anywhere near me sexually unless I initiate it blew me away!!  He didn't see why it was such a big deal...am i overreacting????

zuckie44 · Accepted Answer

I have sort of a mixed view on porn.  I find it erotic when my husband and I rent a porno (maybe twice or three times a year).  We use it sort of as foreplay, and it doesn't bother me, as long as we're together.  However, I don't feel it's necessary for him to look at it on the computer when he's alone.  I think it's disrespectful and I've told him as much.  I definately don't think you're overreacting, as I would be upset as well.

G · Answer

I would definitely feel the same way.  I found porn on our computer and was instantly disgusted.  It is a big deal but I mean what can you do really.  I guess the only thing to do is tell him why you have a problem with it.  I don't think you are overreacting at all.

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31 weeks pregnant and I came home while my bf was watching a porno...?

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