what would u do?

Girl you better run like your single life depends on it because if you get up with him you'll won't only be his girlfriend you'll also be his maid. If he's not responsible enough to take care of his own home than more and likely be the same for ya'll relationship.

Maybe it isn't a frequent thing. Sometimes people ( men especially) tend to get behind on housework. Im a super clean person too though. I think I would ask if he needs a little help cleaning things up and hope he gets the hint. That way you 2 can make a little date out of it and you'll earn some points for helping him out. If he doesnt you should really think about this. I dont like nasty gross people and that does matter, that tells alot about a person.

it really shouldn't matter, if your just hanging out. but to take a relationship to a serious level, you should have a lot of the same likes, and dislikes. so therefore, right at the "git go" you've discovered incompatibility. so don't subject yourself to this, unless you can see such wonderful qualities, which would then blind you to the trivialities.

Yup, it'll matter. How he takes care of his place gives a clue to the kind of person he's like. If it really bothers you, well, sometimes opposites don't attract long term.

A persons home is a reflection of their true personality, I would just leave and forget him or her in my case lol

I think he's looking for someone to get busy with and clean his place too.

He lives like a pig and would live like that in a marriage.

if you love each other no body no rule nothing can stop you. remember love is number 1 in the world you can't live without love

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It's a picture of who he is.

Disarray in his place signifies disarray in his life.

He's probably unorganized and lazy.

He probably drags his feet when he walks - sign of laziness.

May not be the guy for you - his priorities are far different from yours.

Good luck!

First question to ask yourself is if you take it further with him, will you be able to live with him? If not...move on girl!