Females dress too provocatively and I am not comfortable with it.?

I love everybody male or female. I just like people! But there are gender differences.

This question amuses me. The sanctimonious answers given have caused me to respond.

Ladies, first tell me that you never look at a man's backside or his crotch and speculate!

I put it to you with all sincerity that it is quite natural for a red blooded male to look at whatever "sexy" part of a lady they can get their eye on. A century ago it might have been an ankle now . . . whatever. It's even been suggested that when man evolved such that he walked upright the normal mating position for animals was replaced with the enlarged breasts replacing the similarly shaped bottom to excite!

One cannot love the female form too much! Women are beautiful!!!!!

The problem is that our cultural mores tell us that looking is wrong so I do actually have sympathy for your predicament. Women are illogical. (One shouldn't generalise! but hey!) Its a gender thing.

Young women "dress to kill". If they have "assets" they show them provocatively (bless them "youth's a stuff will not endure"- Shakespear) so that they will knock the fellows of their feet! Then when even the best intentioned of men is seen to be "looking" the man is a "perv".

The other day I saw a young lady playing pool. She had one of those little flashing light star things hanging around her neck that could not but get my attention. Did I mentioned that she had lovely breasts and was not self conscious about it.

I think you might want to take an honest look at this situation, and put things into perspective in regards to the real world. First of all, how are the "street sexies" really dressed? Are they running around flashing whales' tails with their thong underwear, or are they wearing T-shirts and shorts? Secondly, perhaps, a little self-control would be a good idea, as would be a lightening-up of your standards for "modesty". Try it- it should work.

I stay in needed Illinois... that's often purely around 40 5 stages outdoors throughout trick or cope with hours. Dressing "provocatively" for Halloween around right here only makes you seem such as you have not got any straightforward experience. XD

Woman and men always look at eachother. It's a primal thing trying to find the best mate I've heard. So don't freak out about it and u sound like a commited male so I needn't give u any lectures onto not do anything stupid like having a affair.

I think you need be responsible for your own downfalls and lack of self control and stop blaming other women for your character faults.

It's not other's responsibility for what goes on inside your own head. Get a grip.

Women are free to do as they like, get the kf over it.

Maybe you should move to Saudi Arabia or Pakistan.

I think it is none of your business how anyone else other than your wife dresses, and if you can't exercise self control... You need to do regression therapy and re-think the proper meaning of the female anatomy and get over your secret mother issues...

A breast is for feeding and nurturing... Not fondling and groping.

Women give life... not just gratification to your every slap and tickle whim. Your wife should be treated like the goddess she is. Not fodder for your amusement.

I personally would cut you off completely until you either; Cheated (which sounds inevitable) so I had a damn good reason to take you for half of everything your worth... (Which doesn't sound like much.) OR... You learned to appreciate what you have and keep your eyes in your head.

I feel sorry for your wife.

Being a women I think it is stupidity that makes others dress in ways to freeze your butt off just to look good. Health over fashion any day.....

If we did have a little girl I would teach her self respect, instead of being a slab of meat....your wife is smart!

Jenivie is right - get your self-control under control! There are always going to be women who don't dress the way you want them to. Get used to it, because your only other choice is put duct tape over your eyes.

I like people to live the way THEY want to live without me judging them and without me feeling like I have the right to tell them what to do.

I try not to dress provocatively unless I am home alone with my husband. I don't like it when people hit on me, or try to make passes at me. My body is not for their appreciation.