Should I dump my boyfriend for being too fat, even if he's trying to lose weight? What should I say?

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Should I dump my boyfriend for being too fat, even if he's trying to lose weight? What should I say?

I've been dating a guy for about a month or so. When we first started dating, I didn't realize how fat he was because he wore baggy clothes. He's really awesome, but he's just so god damn fat. He's trying to lose weight, and he's lost a bit of weight already......

Hello Asking55...Since you have dated for only for a month or so, then I would suggest that if you truely don't love this guy (and no offense but what I read ) you don't, I would just break your relationship off gently. Just tell him nicely that you like him as a good friend and you enjoy his company very much to where you don't mind dating but to have a serious intimate relationship, is out of the question right now. That you don't want sex at this point in your life but maybe later. You have that right you know. Don't be forced into something that you really don't want to do. And to fake it? Nah, don't do that. That isn't really the right thing to do. Just break it to him gently now before you can't break it off in a friendship type of way. Hope this has helped. Have a great day!

Well darlin'==If you are grossed out - you are grossed out.

I may be OLD fashioned but I would NOT 'go all the way' just so he has something to remember you by . Sounds like you've given him plenty to remember you by already. And doin' that ONE thing actually means something special - don't you think? Depending how OLD you are and how HONESTLY you tend to talk and how FAT YOU are and how old he is and if this is just ignorant/baby/donut weight on him and how promiscuous you are generally and how many OTHER less obese mates there are and how psychologically/emotionally strong he is and...and...no one can TELL you - but Good Luck.

You should help him with his weight problems if you want him to shed it that badly, try exercising with him, going jogging together in the park would definitely help you two become closer and yet at the same time help him lose weight. You shouldn't be dumping him just because he's overweight, if you do not appreciate what you have on your hands right now, you might not have a chance to do so in the future.

You've obviously NEVER had to lose weight have you? Losing 25 pounds is generally easy, and the fact that you think he can't do it tells me you're probably some young and ignorant little girl who has been thin and promiscuous her whole life. If you really love him, and actually stay with him, what the hell are you going to do when your looks fade as you hit 60 and he tells you he doesn't love you because your skin is saggy? Do us all a favor and don't reproduce >:I

Well, he can't be the best of guys if he's already pressuring you for sex after dating you for a month. Just tell him that you aren't ready, and if he can't accept that THEN break up with him. You have a valid excuse that he can't deny, and if he does lose weight and you still like him, that's when you would consider sex, if that's morally okay with you.

Never be with someone you are not attracted to, it will kill your soul. Honesty is best, it is going to hurt him, but it might wake him up as well. He is killing himself, hurt can be fixed, dead can't be fixed.

Being with someone seriously overweight is not easy, no matter what people say. It doesn't make you shallow to not want to be with someone who doesn't really take care of himself. There is a good chance that as he ages this will get worse, ever had sex with someone who is 400 pounds? There is nothing appealing about being underneath a grunting walrus. Sex is an important part of a relationship, if this guy just doesn't do it for you, move on.

you are very shallow person but only after a month of dating you shouldnt be sleeping with him anyway! that is something that you should share with someone you really love and care about! Its obviouse that you don't care about this guy at all because hes a little bigger ! sorry sweetie but fat people need love to! He deserves better than you thats for sure and you know what if i was him i would dump you!

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