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Should I stay or should I go?
Im a junior in high school and every summer for six weeks I have attended this upward bound program at Kansas University. I stay there during the week and on the weekends come home. We have relocated 3 hourse away from KU so I figured I would go stay with my dad for the first time and go for my last year there. Its a very good program and helps me prepare more for college life. The delima is my mom doesn't want to see me go. I finally told her what I wanted to do and she got sooo sad. Its sometimes as if she can't handle my little brothers without me. Soo do I go so she can get prepared for when I leave off for college next year or do I stay? Plz voice your opinion and possibly why I'm sooo confused.
She really doesn't have a disablity however her body does tend to hurt a great deal at times, she has diabieties and sometimes she just doesn't take care of her self leaving he feet and things to really hurt if I'm not there staying on her. Oh and I get depress when she eats the wrong foods and I have to make it for her knowing the its going to make her sugar sky rocket I feel as if I'm giving my mom a pipe saying go head and do it sometimes can anyone understand that.
4 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Look, I don't want to bad mouth your mother but she sounds like the clinging type, and I'm speaking from experience becasue my mom was the same way. I think you should go. Yes it will help your mother let go, and, if you are serious about college and it is helping you to better prepare for college then it's a double positive. As for why you are feeling so guilty, that's a no-brainer. You care about your mom and don't want her to b sad. You have to quit worrying about that, though, because she's gonna b sad when you fly the nest anyway. Just make sure to keep in touch.
- garretsonLv 45 years ago
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- RaeLv 41 decade ago
i would go unless your mom has some kind of disability then she should be able to take care of her own children and whats going to happen if you dont go now will she want you to stay when you start to go to college so i would go if i were you
- Anonymous1 decade ago
go... you have no responsibility but to yourself.... she is going to be sad but yeah you do need t show her she can do it on her own and you are grown up now you cant stay home forever!!!
