What would you do..?

Your in a tough spot. As a guy, its pretty much the unwritten rule to not plan a next relationship while in one.

I would say drop him and tell him he can go hook up with the other girl now. It hurts but if he's already planning to end the relationship for another than he is not worth your time.

How old is your boyfriend??? That sounds very imature, but read between the lines... I am sorry, but there is nothing wrong with being territorial, just ask him what would he think if you said that to a guy??? His answer should apply to himself, I am sure that he would not like it if you say that to a guy.

Don t use a jelous tone, but use a common sense tone, remember one thing there are so many things going on in our daily lives and we dont have time to be babysitting a man, so he better be straight.

You dont need to be paranoid, just be straight and have common sense.

I would be pisssssssed off! He said "we should keep in touch?" What kind of sh*t is that? Heck no buddy, dogs go to H*ll for that! Haha! Umm kick his butt! Then again if it was over the internet, who cares, what are the chances they'll meet? Then again people are insane now days, and do meet it up...

If my boyfriend did this it would definatly make me upset because he is still trying to keep a door open with the messenger.

You need to think what your willing to deal with and accept.

Hmm...how did you find this TM? I think he needs to be confronted on this and, no, you aren't paranoid. If he is with you than he doesn't need to play with temptation like that, plus it shows that he isn't solely intereted in you and doesn't see your relationship having lasting qualities. Plus, he can't spell.

Better to be paranoid single, then stupid in a relationship

he obviously isnt *serious* in his relationship and you an option...sounds like a player u need 2 dump !

OUCH! Doesn't sound good. I would have to have a talk with him to go over some things

Dump him! He went way too far & probably has before, just didn't get caught.

I wouldn't waste another second on him. Doesn't even deserve a "good-bye", you are already sooooo gone!