Has anyone who is married ever been tempted to have an affair?

It is human nature to have tempation ... it is all about the will of yourself to act or not act on that temptation. An affair on your spouse will leave you feeing guilty, and will eventually wear you out to nothing. Sex is just sex, and love is everything. Best wishes

Temptation is a part of life. Men and women as they get older want to feel wanted and attractive. If someone shows intrest it strokes thier ego and makes them feel young. However It is wrong either way. The grass is never greaner on the other side. It is a sin to begin with and if you believe that there is a higher power you have to answer to then I wouldn't suggest it. Just remember sex is just sex without love its just that.

I have been tempted many times, by many women.

And have done nothing about it.

I had my wifes best friend try to seduce me one night when we were all living together. My wife had gone to work, and the friend and I were often left alone the entire night. This night we happened to get very drunk, and she started coming on to me. When she reached for my pants, I locked myself in the bedroom. (notice... drunk and NOT giving in... how many times have you heard that?)

I told my wife what happened as soon as she got home, and the friend got moved out the next morning.

THAT was the closest I've ever come to giving in. I only wish my now EX-wife could say the same. Turns out that night she was out sleeping with someone else, not working, and the girlfriend we threw out, knew about it, and was trying to get me a little payback. Had I known what was going on... both women would have moved out the next morning.

I'd rather be single and celibate than destroy my marriage for any reason, especially one as dumb as having an affair.

I have never acted on it . Been married 20 years . But there is one man that I have met in recent years, that if I had the chance to sleep with him I would. I hate to say that but it is true. There is just something about this guy that is a complete turn on.

There is always temptation in life, the question is how do you deal with it. I have been married for 10 tears and been tempted but NEVER gave in to it, I talked it out with my hubby and told him what I was feeling and why and he has done the same with me

Oh Lord yea. This is part of life. What count's is how you act on it. I have been tempted many time's, and cant say that I haven't thought about it, but I think of my hubby and the almost 4yr's invested in our marriage and I think about how goofy it would be to act upon it.

Yah, my husband had the temptation right in his face and like a child, couldnt say no. So he screwed her for 6 months til he got caught.

Of 9 years of marriage, I was faithful to my wife, We are now separated because she was not. Temptation was always there but I never gave in. For my batchlor party, they took me to a strip club and got this one girl that wanted me to slap her butt, I would not toucher. simple example.

Only in general when unhappy, never with anyone specific.