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Bf having space issues.. please help? Guy thing?
Here's is what he sent in an email.. an email..
Hi baby. It was a weird weekend for me. I think I was feeling like I had too much to do this weekend. I know it sounds crazy, but we are going to have to make ourselves take breaks from each other. Everyone needs some personal space. We both need to have time to get things done, whether it's homework, going to the gym, or just breathing. It is not healthy to spend every available moment together. This is the kind of thing that I don't talk about well in person because it comes out wrong when I'm thinking and talking at the same time. I think I was pushing away because I feel caged with commitments, in general. I don't want to blow up or isolate. I think I just need to feel like I can ask to have some time alone without having a guilt trip laid on me that I don't want to be with you or that i don't love you. I know we don't spend a lot of time together cause we don't have that much, but I still think we need some time alone.
I don't want to get to the point where we don't have passion to see each other. I want to keep wanting you and part of that is to deprive me. This sounds so crazy, I don't know if it's guy psychology or just the way I think. Please try to understand this Baby. I love you and I want us to work. I want this to last. I am looking forward to our trip Baby! XOXOXOXOXOXOXO
This is the rest of the email.......
What do you think...... what do I do? I am hurt.
3 Answers
- tomhale138Lv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
Its not healthy to spend every minute together, familiarity breeds contempt and all that you know. If you trust him, and you probably should or else you shouldnt be there with him, you should both get out and do some things without hanging on each other.
Source(s): been hanging on each other and now on each others nerves - 1 decade ago
Ok why in the world are you hurt...... He is telling you that in between everything else that he has to do he still needs some alone time..... This is common for all guys.... Its obvious to me that he cares about you and yall's relationship...so don't be a drama queen about this and respect the fact that he is being honest with you and still wants to be with you..... If you get angry about this then you will prob push him away for no reason......
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Honestly, the main point of the email is that he wants to spend less time with you.
Focus only on the main point--dont fixate on his details. Or his nice "sweet" wording.
He wants to spend less time with you.
You deserve better than him, you can email me.