Cassandra

Me and my honey just bought a house in Dec. and sometimes I feel like we are just going thru the motion of everyday. And I feel like I get bored. Or is it just that I am tired from work? There is a 12 year age difference between us. I don't know what it is. I love him to death.. just feel like I get tired of him more and more. I don't know. I love him. What to do? Any advice on how to get it going like it was before we moved in. When u live with someone, it starts getting repetitive. ???

Here's is what he sent in an email.. an email..

Hi baby. It was a weird weekend for me. I think I was feeling like I had too much to do this weekend. I know it sounds crazy, but we are going to have to make ourselves take breaks from each other. Everyone needs some personal space. We both need to have time to get things done, whether it's homework, going to the gym, or just breathing. It is not healthy to spend every available moment together. This is the kind of thing that I don't talk about well in person because it comes out wrong when I'm thinking and talking at the same time. I think I was pushing away because I feel caged with commitments, in general. I don't want to blow up or isolate. I think I just need to feel like I can ask to have some time alone without having a guilt trip laid on me that I don't want to be with you or that i don't love you. I know we don't spend a lot of time together cause we don't have that much, but I still think we need some time alone.

People always take to offense when a person tells them to go to counseling..... What are your imputs? Would you get offended?

I want to start taking that Hydroxy Cut, but I am worried that my bc pills won't be as effective. Does anyone know if I can take it. I don't want to end up prego.

Was he with that one dude who was getting blood transfusions?