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How do you know when your relationship starts dwindling?
Me and my honey just bought a house in Dec. and sometimes I feel like we are just going thru the motion of everyday. And I feel like I get bored. Or is it just that I am tired from work? There is a 12 year age difference between us. I don't know what it is. I love him to death.. just feel like I get tired of him more and more. I don't know. I love him. What to do? Any advice on how to get it going like it was before we moved in. When u live with someone, it starts getting repetitive. ???
And yes we have a great relationship. I have never met a more perfect man for me. I guess it's life. Thank you. I give major props to people who have been married for a long time and stay happy.
6 Answers
- Jake in IndianaLv 51 decade agoFavorite Answer
I would agree. Talk with him. You need to realize that 99% of everyone goes through this. Just don't seem like you are unhappy as that could cause more problems. Maybe you could suggest taking some weekend trip together somewhere.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Talk to each other about why you are feeling this way.
Not in an argumentative way,but in an understanding way.
You two have to understand that you are different people with different opinions and way of thinking.
You have to accept his opinions and he yours.
Arguments start when one wants to change another.
When you get home from work when your tired and such.Give him a little hug,kiss on the cheek and tell him you love him.
No more needs to be said.
Good Luck!!!!
Married for 13 wonderful years!!!! â¥
- 1 decade ago
The first instance of disrespect may go unnoticed but the 2nd and 3rd you will notice, after that you have to watch your mouth and be very conscious of what you say. things said in moments of anger too will keep the direction downward. You REALLY have to feel the adoration when you are in an appreciative mood. Remember how blessed you are to have someone to love and that someone loves you and it will help the relationship from going downward.
- 1 decade ago
spice it up ... tell him ur feeling blah and u want to involve him in something wonderful ... and go on a crazy date... have sex in the back seat ... again at home.. and dont do just the norm .. go wild and crazy ... tell him how crazy he drives you and see him start to "wake up" ... do things and go places with him and really enjoy urself and have a blast! Make a romantic night with candles all around the bed after he gets out of the shower .. just some ideas... everyone needs a little spice and change after 12 years ... it will make a diff
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- 1 decade ago
All humans go through that motion, the difference is that many people are better at hiding it. Sometimes we tend to loose the sparks that brought us together. So talk to him or seek proffesional help.
- 1 decade ago
I've been with the same person for 23 yrs. not married. everyday is different. every love is different there is a difference of loving someone and being in love . i hope u the best of luck......
