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Why am I such a loser?

I am 50 years old and I have always been a loser and I don't know why. I can never get a good job, my children don't love me,I am alway broke, I could go on forever.

But in my own mind I am a smart, open minded, insiteful person.

Why is it some people cane never amount to anything no matter how hard I try?

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I feel you.

    I sometimes counting my blessing one by one helps and by the time I think of about 15 or so I feel like I don't have anything to be down about. It could be worse

    What ever you do don't let life get you down, your not the only one that feel like thy should have accomplished more out of life. Its not to let. Always shoot for the moon and if you miss attest you'll be among the stars.

  • 1 decade ago

    Hunni!

    Rawrr...

    what's a loserr?

    aww your soo downn on yourselff i don't like it!...ugh okay....well first of all i looked a loser online...and it's such a slangish word...what is a "loser" exactly...hah the opposite of winner?...

    Anyways...50 years old..well you must have been doing something right...for you made it this far...Never get a good job? hmmm i'm shure if you could get a job that interests you in some way that would help...do something you like...and enjoy somewhutt...Your broke...well if you would get a job that should help....maybe try to save a lil more.. and your children don't "love" you...they don't love you hmm...i'm shure if you died tomrrow they would feel a great pain...for i'm shure you were there to nurture them...they would feel upset...because they love and care for you...-talk to your children...do what you can...you don't a longgg time to live...soo you should make the most of it...and if you feel your such a loser...than do something about it =)

    and i'm shure you are all those qualities...and more...

    =-)

    Good Luck

  • Johnny
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    You are who you think you are. You must change the pattern to change a pattern you must change the way you think and to change the way you think you must change the way you live your everyday life in how you react, discipline, work, eat, sleep, how you entertain yourself how you treat others and much more. The best way to change is to make a list of all you good habits and bad habits and work on the bad and increase the good. You have to want change to make change so start now and change your life. Also try joining different women’s groups that have a positive influence. Good luck and God bless.

  • 1 decade ago

    maybe if u think positive and get a job with the talents u need u will succed also find out why ur kids hate u and try to fix it

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  • 1 decade ago

    Negativity my friend.It will tear you up.Been there.Find something good about yourself.Some kids are just mean.If they don't love you thats their problem.Alot of people are always broke.Its the acconemy.Don't live for them.Live for you.Hint:God can pull anyone out of anything.

  • 1 decade ago

    wow, maybe you should lighten up and take some of that pressure off your self, whos standards are you trying to live up to? do what make syou happy:)

  • s w
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    your only a loser becuase u think, talk and act like a loser. try being a winner.

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