What is the best thing to do for a bachelorette party?

where are you from? and how much are you willing to spend? let us know.

ok since there are no other details, go to vegas!!

Themes & Ideas

Pamper Palace

Suggest a day or weekend spa event and send everyone running for their plush terry robes. You'll forgo junk food and alcohol, but those clean pores and exfoliated elbows will be worth it. Choose a full-service site that offers everything from massages and mud wraps to makeovers and manicures. The bride will appreciate the stress-buster, and you all may find great new looks for wedding day. (Can just be Manicures and facials to keep down costs)

Let Them Eat Cheese

Fondue parties can be great, messy fun. Communal pots of melted cheese and chocolate seem to encourage giggles and gossip. Do this at home if you've got the equipment (and people willing to chop veggies, meats, and fruits), or you can reserve a big table at a fondue restaurant. Go ahead and indulge -- don't worry about the calories. This is your night to get down and get cheesy.

(Maybe combine with one of the other ideas. Like get manicures, go to a comedy club, then head back to a house for dinner/snacks and have fondue. I have a fondue pot)

It's in the Stars (and the Cards)

If the bride knows her Sun and Moon signs, plus her fiance's rising sign, we can predict with almost perfect accuracy that she'll love a New Age party. Hire a tarot card reader and an astrologer to do everyone's chart. This idea can be a big hit -- and not just with the starry-eyed bride. Who doesn't want to know what the future holds?

Scavenger Hunt

You're adults, but that doesn't mean you have to act the parts! A scavenger hunt (complete with clues and a treasure map) will bring out the children in all of you, and prizes can be as grown-up as you like (bottles of champagne or gift certificates for a massage, for instance). Use a friend's house or garden and be as creative as you dare.

(Might be a fun start to the day. Maybe one of the types where you write down a list of items around town and then everyone drives around to take pictures of the items.)

Send in the Clowns

A comedy club may seem one step up from Chippendales, but it's a recipe for hilarity -- especially when the stand-ups know you're there for a bachelorette party (married sex and mother-in-law jokes will fly!). Call the club in advance and reserve a front-row table. Tell them what you're celebrating, and ask about a group discount if there's a cover charge. After a few stiff drinks, even Al Gore could have you in stitches. (This is what I am doing for mine)

Must-Have Party Props

The Headpiece

You want everyone you encounter -- the limo driver, the mini-mart clerk, bartenders, and cute guys at bars -- to know what's coming when they see your hooting entourage. Mini-veils are the most popular ways to make the bride stand out, but you can also have her wear a glitzy tiara, a bride hat, or better yet, a hilarious wig.

The Dare-to-Do List

Create and bring a list of missions for the bride to fulfill throughout the evening. A scavenger-hunt version requires the bride to score such items as a condom, five men's business cards, a pair of boxer shorts, and other loot. The dares list might include goofy -- but not completely humiliating -- acts such as serenading an unsuspecting stranger, dancing on a table, or crank-calling an ex-boyfriend.

Suck-For-a-Buck Accessory

Pack a candy necklace for the bride to wear. This classic bachelorette party stunt requires enlisting random willing males to remove the candies from the bride's neck...with their teeth. The charge: $1 per bite. Can't find a necklace? Just glue wrapped candies to a T-shirt and make the bride wear that instead.

X-Rated Essentials

Fearing that trip to the sex shop? Scaling a jungle full of penis paraphernalia can quickly become overwhelming. Our advice: Make a beeline for the penis sipper (a.k.a. "dickie sippie") and straws. Since the bachelorette is likely to be boozing it up all night, these two items make the most sense, provide a constant laugh, and allow everyone to get in on the phallic fun (there are six straws per pack).

Disposable Cameras

When the party's over, the energy and excitement of the night will be reduced to a few fuzzy memories. So don't let a single minute of the evening's debauchery go undocumented. Bring at least two cameras so that no explicit scenes get censored. The maid of honor should be in charge of retrieving the cameras at the end of the night to guard them from any blackmail-prone situations.

Games

Memory Game

Prior to the shower guests arrival, pin as many newly purchased kitchen/cooking utensils/gadgets (ie: measuring spoons, can opener, small spatula, potato peeler, garlic press)that will fit onto an apron (with bib or vest, front & back. Have the bride don the vest or apron (with bib) and let the guests view it for 2-3min's. Have the bride remove the vest/apron &/or retreat to another location. Give the guests a pencil/pen & paper & the person who recalls the most items/correctly wins!! :-) The newly purchased items on the vest/apron then become a gift to the bride!

Take It Off

Give every guest a paper bag, and make them put it over their head. The host then tells everyone to remove one article, (watch, shoe, jewelry, etc.) the smart ones will just remove the bag, while less fortunate one keep removing clothes till the last one realizes everyone is watching her strip.

Penis Pin Game/Bachelorette Party

Purchase some clothes pins and fuzzy balls. Draw a penis on the clothes pins and hot glue 2 fuzzy balls onto the end. As the guests arrive, pin the clothes pin on them and tell them they can not do something (such as touch their hair). When someone does this, tell the guests they may take the person's "penis". The one with the most "penises" at the end of the party wins.

Dance clubs are always fun. You can go and have a great time, get a little tipsy. I would hire a van or bus for the evening with a driver so no one has to worry about drinking.

One of my friends just got married and well they had a house party for her.

Had this lady have a sex toy party for her and then they got her some stripper and it was super cool! Had a cake shaped like a d*ck! And all kinds of nasty party favors.

Go to a male strip club! Only if that wouldn't hurt her relationship with her soon to be hubby though. Or you can throw a "toy party" (with sex toys), they're really fun with the girls!!! There's no sex involved though, it's not like that.

(Reading the question out loud, I hear a voice from the next room...-"Plan it for LAST week!")

Is that what comes from being a 'party animal'?

It would have been helpful for you to have posted a city you live in. This is just not enough information.

I am probably going to have mine at my house or a friend's and just have a good girls night out!

Good luck!! Christina

I think you might wanna hear kris out. The man is trying to make a point.

go to a dance club, there does not have to be guys to hit on, but just make sure that she has fun! congrats to her!