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fanta
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fanta asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 1 decade ago

home alone?

i sit at home most weekends alone.i have a lot of male friends but none seam to want to take me out.my best friend is male and he says i seam needy how can i stop this

Update:

ok first i dont have any girlfriends as i find them to bitchy second most my male friends dont want girlfriends it is way to dangerus for a female to go out alone in my city.maybe i just expect to much

Update 2:

i have been alone for over 6 years

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Get out there,change the way you dress or your hair.something that will make you feel good and a changed girl.then find female pals.hang out and go out there and find a life and enjoy it.don't be found with your male buddies most of the time,then they will miss u an wanna hang with.why do you think people like the cool girls,coz the make their lives interesting

  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Find some female friends.

    After a while all your male friends will want is a relationship... a love relationship.

    I know - most of MY friends are male.

    So you're home alone? So what? Bake, garden, study, paint, sing, turn up the music loud and dance around the house! Surf the net, go out, see a film... wow - look at how much you can do alone! :)

    Are you needy? Maybe... Just try to do some things by yourself for a bit.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Don't call one person all the time to have your needs for companionship met. This will definitely drive people away. Call a few people and always have a plan B, C, and maybe D. And by the way, a lot of guys need space and they like to chum around with other guys. Why don't you have girlfriends? Well, I guess I understand. I don't like hanging around girls either.

  • 1 decade ago

    Why don't you either ask the male friends to go out or go out and make new male friends.

    You must change your "needy" attitude to get the guys interested in you again.

    Source(s): JMHO
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  • 1 decade ago

    you have to look at it they are male friends and you are a female when you all hang out thats stopping them from meeting new women because they think you all are a couple maybe you should trying to meet new people im sure there is a girl at work or school you can hang out with or maybe it is a boy youd like to go out with weigh your options hang out with family members such as cousins sisters brothers or even have a party

  • 1 decade ago

    Go out by yourself or with female friends. Stop worrying about men so much. They find self confidence attractive. As long as you don't act over confident. Have fun. They will come.

  • 1 decade ago

    Get yourself interested in you. Start by mediating and exercise. Focus on what you want in life and make it happen. All others will fall into place naturally. When you least expect it. You need to find happiness and peace within. Than you can find friendship and love.

    God Bless you and grant you peace

  • 1 decade ago

    start hanging out with females...they won't ditch you like that, probably the reason your male friends don't want to take you out is because they are with girls, and girls can get jelious when a female friend is around

  • 1 decade ago

    you gotta be opened up!if no one want to take you out,so why dont u take urself out?let's get out and have somefun,may be you will find someone want to hang out with u^_^

    i used to sit at home most weekends alone,just like you,but someday,i cant take it anymore,idecided to go out on my own.then i meet lots of people and i never been alone again.^^

    Source(s): my own experience
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    get out and do something by yourself or with your male friend or your girl friends! i think you should ask to do something with them it shouldnt be the other way around! in my opinion, your friends just dont want to take you out becuz they may think you dont want to go out with them. so just make yourself available and let them know you are up for doing anything!

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