What is your favourite wedding message board?

first, www.theknot.com

second, this one

I think you would eventually miss or resent the fact that you did not have the big wedding.You could find perhaps a local beach or a lake or a friend with a country home or church if you do not live close to the beach and have your wedding there. You can still have photographer with beautiful wedding pictures to look at for the rest of your lives. The way you put EVERYTHING in caps lets me know how much you are looking forward to everything, just take some of the every off. I would just scale it down due to fiance's smaller family , like only three bridesmaids, no juniors, and you can still have your Jamaican honeymoon. I am not a fan of destination weddings, call me old fashioned, but I still believe the honeymoon destination is for the bride and groom only, a special time for them only and memories that will be between only the two. I wouldn't want my private honeymoon turned into a circus. I don't like cruise weddings,either for the same reason. I would like a villa if possible where you can be yourselves, make love whenever, eat whenever, swim whenever, stay in bed all day, no interruptions, just learning how to be a married couple together. Even if you are living together, there is still something special about becoming two people as one and I think this is a sacred commitment and that the honeymoon is a special spiritual bonding time.

where are you from? many times states have local sites. my wedding is on long island, ny so i visit liweddings.com often. google "wedding message boards" and see what pops up!

theknot.com is really great, it helped me a lot when I was planning my wedding

www.theknot.com

It helped me a LOT -- Totally trendy & great ideas : )

I lived by it the whole time I was planning!!!

Good luck & congrats!!! (to her) : )