love or lust?

Yes, it is even possible to fall in love at first sight.

Don't rush; take some time to think and let the other person think thoroughly as well. Right now, you may be confused about how things are going but if you are patient, everything will come clear and work out fine.

Well if u ask me u and him need to have a talk. I really dont think that u can fall in love with someone in 20 days. U might care alot for him and yes might even lust over him but no i dont think its love. U have to really know that person and love is not only a feeling its a decision. U have commitment to honer cherish stay by at all times never leave u can wake up to this person everyday. U dont have to do that if u dont want so its also a decision. Then the fact that u both have someone else in your life right now is crazy .Yall cant concentrate on yall relationship if ur worried about someone else u have to give eachother a chance it might just work . Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It can happen. I feel in love with a friend after a few weeks. I was with someone else at the same time too. Circumstances never have been right between me and him though. But, we still love each other and maybe one day we'll be able to be together. Good luck with yours! Oh, and let me tell you something, don't let him get away if you truly are. I did this and the guy is married with a kid and he works in my building...no bueno.

I think love is hard to define. I know the feeling you are describing. It's a great feeling. I think love is what you end up with after you are married for a few years and all those feelings of newness are gone and you wake up and realize you would do anything for your mate. You care about their happiness more than your own but you need to work to spice things up. But you do because you love them.

Yeah, my sister had this problem. She was like, "We're so in love! I love him SO much!" And I'm just like, "Whatever.." But, they ended up breaking up 3 years later, because he didn't want to sacrifice.. So, it's most likely lust. Don't let yourself think that it's love.

If you were really in love you wouldn't want to be with anyone else but him. I would have to say it is just lust or friends with benefits.

well its always good to stay safe....for me, i dont believe in love at first sight nor i believe in the long commitments to be able to distinguish love.....coz for me love just comes when you least expected it...you just feel it there within your heart....and it exceeds physical attraction..