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Why do people who make the choice to have no children for environmental reasons....?

....have the unmitigated NERVE to lecture those of us who have had children? You are so sanctimonious and self-rightous. Just because a Communist country like China imposes a one child rule on their people has nothing to do with me! Just because you've made a choice how you wish to live your life doesn't mean the rest of us want to live that way.

Update:

I've got four sons...and when I hear talk like that i take it as a personal attack against them...as if they are a burden on this planet and should never have been born. Probably a little over-sensitve but still...whether or not to have chikdren is intensely personal and I take great offense at the pontificating of ignorant blow hards.

Update 2:

this is the question that got me so mad.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Asr1w...

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  • ducky
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
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    When i hear people talk like that i feel attacked to because if we followed the 1 child rule my sister would not be existent. Plus that rule is in China so it does not aply to us at all. Where do people get off saying how many children your are allowed to have, love, and care for? Just becase they have choosen not to create a life doesnt mean that they have to put down another and believe that it shouldnt exist. You decide how you wish to spend you life so dont let another person get you down just because they view life in a horrible way. Lief shouldnt be judged or compared to population problems. For gods sake you have created a life, why in the hell and on what earth should that be a bad thing?

  • 1 decade ago

    Dear 4 shades of blue,

    Ouch!

    You seem a little upset by someone .... If you are a parent, I would assume you know how not to let people get under your skin like that.

    I have children, and I can also understand, that if everyone in the world had a child, assuming they all equally married, and each couple had only 1, that would be 3 billion more people! That is allot of people. I have 3 kids as it is.

    It is sad when people go off on tangents, but what makes your tangent here different than what they said to you?

    yours,

    GT

    At this very instance, for all people and nations of Earth,

    Let not even the words "disease," 'famine," "war" and "suffering" be heard,

    But may virtue, merit, wealth and plenty increase

    And auspiciousness and well-being ever abound.

  • 1 decade ago

    My guess would be with the way the world is turning out. People wish not to have or bring a child into a hard stricken world as they see fit too. Some just chose not to. Period.

    Just my opinion for all it's worth.

    Thank you, have a good day :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I agree completely - in fact we *need* more children - the ageing population and falling birth-rate is one reason we are told we need so many immigrants - and they hardly stick two one or two children do they?

    Edit - well I just answered the question that set you off (rightly!) and added this for them -

    http://www.geocities.com/RainForest/3046/overpop.h...

    and this -

    http://www.ncpa.org/sub/dpd/index.php?Article_ID=1...

    and there's a lot more *real* research out there too.

    Source(s): Mother of four,Grandmother of three - and hoping for many more and then Great Granchildren and so on too in abundance
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  • Have pity on them. They are delusional, selfish, and will never know the incredible joy children give you, because they cannot be bothered.

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