Oral sex on women??

Well, here's the thing: To be an open, giving and satisfying lover, many women consider cunnilingus part of the deal. Here's what you can do to make it a little better:

1) Just pay attention to the outside of the labia and clitoris, rather than trying to delve into the vagina.

2) Be gentle as though it is the most precious, priceless object you can find

3) Ask your mate to bathe first to be fresh for you - a good lover will be happy to do this because they know that you want to please them

4) If your lover really enjoys it, sometimes it really helps if they verbalize their pleasure.

5) If 1-4 don't help, then go old school and 69 it. It is very difficult to keep your mind on what you are doing when you are receiving fellatio, so you can kind of cheat while still pleasing your mate.

Sorry, but it's a psychological issue and not an anatomy one.

The core is: - You aren't loving others body as like as yours too!

Aside from the reality that sexual organ isn't an open wound and according to your personal point of view we never should kiss mixing our tongues or even touch each other! If you consider the vagina a risky center of infection with fungus bacteria & virus you neither should have any sexual intercourse then!

Probably you don't know that - since vagina is a very delicate organ - in any heathy girl it even can be considered as an aseptic place, more than our penis surely!

Sorry, but for you the sexual intercourse only is a mechanical act while sex is taboo as like as the sexual organs overall.

I realize your set-mind won't change because it's not easy to treat such disturbance by a short chat.

I was really uncomfortable with it at first, but believe me I got used to it and now it's great, tell him how you like it and what he's doing wrong, the first and most important thing is take a shower right before that may make you feel a little more comfortable. Try what makes you comfortable believe me when you have good sex it makes everything else better.

Any part of the body can be a breeding ground for gems if one do have good personal hygiene. Engaging oral sex does higher the risk of infected with STD, among other diseases. Knowing your partner's health history is also very important.

My wife loves for me to go down on her. She's 61 years old and says her orgasms are stronger now than when she was younger and maybe that's true, however, I think it's because I have learned how to do it better. I enjoy pleasing my wife it makes the whole making love process complete. We've been married for 22 years now and I think I can keep her orgasms going until death do us part. Most definitely concentrate on the clitoris, always start out slow and as she becomes aroused then press a little harder. When her legs are wide open and she starts with rhythmic pelvic thrust you are on your way.

Have you ever heard of using a dental dam? Try using one next time. Also the same is true for women who give oral to a man. The penis can also harbor things like infections and STD's. That is why a man should always use a dental dam on a woman and a woman should insist that the man put on a condom for oral sex unless they are married etc.

Obviously you have a different mind set. There is no data on men keeling over from oral sex. You sound like a germ-o-phobe and are missing out !!!! Think of your mouth as bacteria ridden, a human bite is bad.......but people still kiss!!!! Get a grip.

I think that the problem lies between your ears rather than between her legs.

Having done what you are describing as disgusting for about forty years, I can assure you that I have suffered no ill effects as a result.

I agree, but you can use your fingers to get the same results or better, so I've been told.

I Love doing it. Bring the bacteria on!