How do you deal with your anger?

God bless you. I dont know what the circumstances are that brought your mother-in-law to you home, but bless you for doing it.

Two women in one home is a very tough situation.

You need to try and talk to her and set some ground rules. Let her know (in a kind way) that you respect her opinion, but that this is your house. Remind her that she once had her own place, and that is when she was the Queen. But now this is your castle and you make the decisions for the family.

Try sometimes to include her in decision making so she feels included. But let her know that you will ask ONLY when you want her opinion, otherwise you would appreciate her being respectful of your home.

no you're not being irrational, but you have probably failed to set boundaries and limites with your inlaws long ago.

you can find more information about PERSONAL BOUNDARIES by doing a search on the internet. yahoo search is great and you will find a lot of self-help information there.

some people have a habit of trying to tell others what to do.... many of these people have anxiety issues and it's a temporary relief for them...and perhaps they dont' have much of a life of their own, so they stick their nose in.

you can also tell your mother in law that if you want advice you will ask for it.... otherwise, please keep your distance and out of my personal situations.

just because you live together doesnt' give others the right to try and direct your life.

take care.

To deal with anger , i just say it to the person and talk about it. and till now we always come out . This help for me

No ,u are not irrational . This is a very difficult situation. Your mother in law has her life and you and your family have yours.Try to find a solution for this .

Good luck

No, you aren't. Anyone would hate being pushed around and being told what to do in their own home. I agree that she doesn't understand your emotions, so maybe you can tell her how you feel, but rationally rather than in frustration and anger, otherwise, she'll think you really need her help 'cause you're so temperamental.

take a shower