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Sex Drive???????

I have a much higher sex drive than my man, do any of you other girls have this problem?! x

Update:

i have toys and i do use them! i just wish his drive was higher! I dont get nearly as much as i would like!

Update 2:

by the way im 22 and he is 26

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Well, I am 40. I have an unusually high sex drive too...always have!

    I think about sex all the time...my hubby laughs at me because I am always really really nice to him right before bed time!

    Find something that gets him going!

    I have a vibrator and use it often, just to give my hubby a break! I sometimes use it when he's gone and sometimes when he's there with me.

    If it has been a day or two, it is a sure fire way to get him "perked up"

    Do you use yours in front of him? My hubby can't resist the sound wakes him from a dead sleep!!

    He likes to watch and watching leads to touching and touching leads to...well, you know!

    Also...you have to make him WANT it...he is there with you every day...he KNOWS he can have it whenever he wants. Get him out of that frame of mind.

    I make my hubby WANT it...I call him at work and tell him what I want to do to him!! I try new thinks in bed...spice things up...keep him guessing!

    It works!

    6 kids and we're still a hot item

    Source(s): ps--my favorite subject...A STAR FOR YOU**
  • Cris
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Yeah I'm a true Scorpio, and my sex drive is pretty higher than most men too - In fact I think I scared a few off because they couldn't keep up -- if I"m not doing it, I'm thinking about doing it - I also use my "toys" but now I have a man, that keeps up with me pretty well- I don't think I'll ever find one to match me, but he holds his own.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes and the only thing i can tell you is find a younger man with a higher sex drive no just kidding.

    Seriously it sounds like you need to either have him manually stimulate you or do it yourself and get it from him whenever you can.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i am a man with a much higher sex drive than my wife, best thing to do is ask him, he might be stressed with work or cash or anything but when you ask you get answers that help you both get through things, my wife was going through a tough time at work and when i asked her about it and got her to talk about it and release her stress she changed and relaxed more and also learnt to do what i do, leave the problems with work where they best belong, in work, it also goes a lot on age, my sex drive up to two years ago was mad, i would love to have made love 5-6 times a day but then i hit 40 and it doesnt seem as important now, in fact i am now down to wanting to make love to her about 3 times a day, enjoy and talk to him

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  • Jules
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Well it's because you are young and your man should have a high sex drive as well he's still really young himself. It's the other way around with me. I'm 37 and my husband is 46 and he has a sex drive a young guy. It's weird that it's the other way around with us. Good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    Its not higher, but definitely on a par and I think he was quite surprised to find I had as high a sex drive as he did!! LOL.

    Have you spoken to him about it? If not I think you should cos you never know, he may just think he's being considerate.

    If your sex drive is running crazy you could always invest in a battery friend!!

  • Paul R
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Most women have much higher sex drives than men do. Women generally are multiorgasmic, men are not. Women take longer to be ready for sex but are capable of much more response than men.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes, my sex drive is really high - but for different times of the day. I've been in relationships in the past where it was night time sex only, but there's nothing i like more then dding it in the middle of the afternoon. Buy yourself a selection of vibrators, and maybe get your boyfriend to use them on you, with you! It's turn you on, def turn him on, and you may find you end up having more sex anyway!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    My man wants to have it 6 tims a day

    To my surprise, when I just got home from work, I saw Sex Drive under the questions that I've answered and was like, What the frig?! I didn't answer that! Turns out, my man did!!

    Source(s): Slamanader
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I and my man are very compatible because we both have very high sex drives.

    I think you and your man need to come to a compromise between the two of you otherwise this could cause problems...nip it in the bud now... good luck.

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