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what is the best way to date a girl?

i met a girl yesterday and i found i had already have a crush on her, could you tell me a good way to date her and approach her?

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  • Ben H
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I'm going to assume that you're probably quite young however I was once in your shoes so I have some advice. Ensure that you dress nice, smell nice (nothing's worse than body odour or bad breath), have nice hair and speak with confidence. If you have a group of friends that does 'neutral' activities like minigolf or bowling organize a group event and tell her that you and a bunch of friends were going bowling and that you'd like if she could come. Be friendly but have confidence. Make it seem like it's the most natural thing in the world so that she will be comfortable too. If she rejects you no big deal there's plenty more in the sea.

    Now is the time in life to perfect the skill of speaking smoothly with women. Some men never perfect this art. If she agrees to go she is interested because think about it if the shoe were on the other foot. If an attractive girl asked you to come bowling with a group of friends would you make up some excuse not to go? Of course not! You'd be there no matter what. Take it as it comes after that, if she's still interested after a group activity wait a couple days and possibly see if she's like to do something with you and not your group of friends.

  • 1 decade ago

    Treat her with respect and dont rush into the dating part to quickly- first let her know that your interested then by talking to her,find out if she is as well. NEVER EVER come across clingy,that will drive a girl far farr away =]

  • 1 decade ago

    1- Never plan where u r gonna take her.

    2- Let her decide the place.

    3- Make sure u have $ cause u never know where u headed.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you can either ask her out. if you do, ask her to go to starbucks or go bowling or min-golf. after that, ask her for her phone number. call her 2 or 3 days later and ask if she wants to do something again. maybe dinner somewhere decent. red lobster's outback steakhouse, Chili's etc. then ask her if she wants to meet you or if she wants you to pick her up. if you pick her up, first, clean your car and yourself. also show up around 10 minutes early. talk about her and listen to her. after all this, ask her if she wants to watch a movie at your place. if she says yes sit on the couch next to her. might put your arm around her and if she likes it it's ok. after you take her home walk her to her door and kiss her on the cheek. BTW... ALWAYS open the door for her, also, don't burp/fart around her.

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  • Wolfie
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Abstainance is the safest way to date.

    Aproach: Ask her for a piece of paper, when she hands you one tell her "No, this one is deffective" When she gets a funny look on her face or ask you "What?" tell her "It doesn't have your number on it" its just witty enough to work but turn on the charm and play cool its a very suave line.

    Enjoy the end of sanity (dating)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    major step is getting to know her first and communicating.

    when the two of you start to communicate daily via in person or online, suggest going somewhere for a social event or play a sport together.

  • 1 decade ago

    Walk up behind her when she is washing clothes and hit her over the head with your club and drag her back to your cave.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Ask her to meet you for coffee or something similar. It's non threatening and you can get to know each other better.

  • 1 decade ago

    More than anything be honest like no lie tht is why all my relation ships have ended bad cuz i lied and then they dont trust u so watever u do dont lie cuz they take it serious

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    ask her 2 homecoming

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