Divorced woman, married man.?

Yes, you should stop talking to him. He's already cheating on his wife even if it's not physically. Stop all contact with him. What you're doing is not right.

Why don't you ask his wife if you can talk to him and see what kind of response you'll get? You already know that what you're doing is wrong but you ask this question so you can get someone else's blessing to go ahead and do what you're doing !!! People don't stop to think about how much they are hurting the other woman/man that is innocent to the fact their spouse is having an affair. When the other half finds out about the affair and brings problems YOUR way you have no choice but accept those problems because you brought them on yourself by getting involved in their life. All you have to do is read the newspapers and see some of the extreme reactions of people who have become involved in affairs. You never know how a person will react. Just some food for thought.

God, yes. Not even so much that he's got a wife. Yes, that's a good reason. But honey, you've already gotten divorced. If you pick a man who has an affair, guess what kind of man you'd end up with? A man who has an affair on you! Do really want another failed relationship? Run! As far away as you can. You're just attracted to the drama he obviously can provide. It's why you chose the marriage you ended up in. Believe me, I'm speaking from one who does the same thing. Be strong! Good luck.

You should absolutely stop talking to him. A person should never CHOSE to be the one to come between a husband and wife, and that's basically what you're doing. You say he wouldn't cheat, but you can't predict the future, and his actions thus far have indicated otherwise. Even if the two of you never slept together, you're still having an emotional affair. That can be just as devastating to a marriage as a physical affair. It's great that he's given you hope for the future, but he's not doing you any favors by getting this close to you, and you're certainly not doing him any favors either. The relationship is unhealthy, and continuing to talk with him should stop completely. You can't just be friends when there's sexual tension between the two of you. Get out now while the gettin's good. There are SINGLE men who are just as great.

I know the obvious answer is rrruuunn! But I believe if he makes you happy don't stop talkng to him. Going through a divorce is a tough thing to do. I know, I've been there. It's not a sin if you are just communicating. Nothing physical. If he says he is emotionally attatched, then he needs to reflect on his own marriage and make sure this is exactly what he wants. I would continue to speak with him if it's what you and he desires. It will all work itself out. I would try not to get too attatched because he is married. But for now, just think of him as a breath of fresh air... you deserve it!

His comment about wanting to talk more and it's driving him crazy is a clear indication that he has crossed some sort of line already and is at least thinking (fantasizing?) about crossing the big line.

I don't know that you need to cut off all contact, but I would absolutely draw some firm boundaries. I think that if you don't release some of the "tension" in the relationship by backing off a bit you will both be headed toward an affair. Just my opinion, but you have a bit of that giddiness about this relationship that is fun but dangerous.

1) am against divorce( grosso modo) disregarding exceptional cases where thru violence ic common play or wherein it may pose threat to life and so on. 2) No, its absolutely not a soln! - nowadays we have so many remedies fr things that aint are causes fr disruptions in between a couple. Fraught in between couples due to extramarital affairs can be solved( with proper discussion in btw spouses fr example) or due to not having kids or tensions arising due to bringing job at home or letting other problems being reflected onto the couple. Proper counselling ( whether it be from special care(pysologists, Marital Advisor and so on) can help: something which we dont really consider but 'religion can set things aright for many folks - as it leads them onto the 'straight path' (excluding some 'religions' of course) or advise from the elderly - our mother or father or someone close to us can help to 'litigate' the baddies going on. But then, do try to talk on abt it with yr spouse provided that they love each other. 3) why not, i wouldnt mind marrying a divorced woman; but then, it would be better that she has no kids, but if ever i am to like a divorcee having kids - i would say that i would really go forward: i cant find how it can really pose as a 'threat'. we aint talking on about things like getting thyself accepted or a possible 'age gap' that may prevail - albeit - age doesnt matter. =) 4) if i were to be a woman, yes. but i would be someone looking frward into having kids.. once again there are many factors which am letting down. 5) yes. 6) yes 7) extra marital affairs, financial problems, sickness, alcoholism, physical and emotional abuse and 'incompatibility' in practiaccly everything( i aint suggesting on about differences in opinion - i'm reffering to clashes fr at every nw and then and fr each goings on; Jealousy!, and, lack of spirituality or morals( they hve ridiculised the 'school' of marriage.. =( ) finally: lack of love. 'A relationship between a husband and wife is like a house.. When a light bulb burns out, u don't go & buy a new house.. As per Spirituality teaches us, we FIX the light bulb...' ;)

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karma. What comes around goes around. Would you want to be in his wife's shoes, even now? How would she feel is she knew you two were talking like this? how would you feel if you were her? If he can do that to his wife now, what makes you think down the road he wouldn't do it to you? Treat others the way you would like to be treated, and if he gave you this "hope" that there is someone out there, then shouldn't you be looking for him? Because you are not going to find him waiting on the married man.

YES!!!! omg think about it you could be destroying a good relationship there and it will be even worst if he has kids.. plus save yourself from another big disspoiment. see sometimes all guys need is women to pay attention to them he might not be there in the level where he is cheating on his wife right now but if u keep encouraging him belive me he will then you will have to carry the guilt of breaking up his marriage. just because yours went wrong his shouldnt. his wife might have no idea of what is going on and im pretty sure she might still love him and because of you she might get a broken heart.. imagine how you feel! you still love your ex thats how she might feel if they end up devorcing b/c of you..do you want someone else to go thru what you are going thru? stop talking to him in fact cut him off completly and look for a guy that isnt married and is right for you..

Well if your talking to him and his wife doesn't know about you, you both might have crossed that line you didn't want to cross! I am NOT accusing either of you of anything ... I am just saying keep your distance. I do think you both need to stop talking to each other. Its for the best, since he is still married! I wish you the best of luck!