Is it wrong to want to leave my wife because she's getting fat and wrinkly and smokes and doesn't excercise?

Yes, but do you get head? If yes, it is wrong...if not...you are free to leave.

Remember ladies, no head means no hubby

Seriously. Dude! you already know the answer otherwise, you wouldn't be asking! It is wrong. Can you honestly say you've remain the same. Maybe she's stressed by you or something else. Maybe if you do leave her, she won't have a reason to smoke and does not feel the need to impress you.There might be things about you she don't like.If she left you because you changed, would you like it? Does the term"For better or for worse, ring a bell"?

I know I sound harsh, but you sound selfish. it is what it is.

Honesty is the best policy here, now I highly doubt your leaving is because shes getting heavy, wrinkly, smokes and doesnt exercise, perhaps you should sit down with her and have the talk, maybe she wants out from you because shes not in love with you anymore and is doing this to push you away? Life is long, to long to be in an unhappy relationship.

Nope. Sorry Jeff but I'm sure that she's looking at you and seeing many character defects too. Perhaps you two can discuss things and get into shape together. And rather then smoking you can take up the exercise of sex instead which would benefit you both. There would be weight loss, tightening of wrinkles as well as something you can do together.

It is a little mean, but you should try to get her to eat right, exercise, and stop smoking.

Smoking will be the end of her, get her to realize that. I put a lot of stress on the smoking part. Don't mean harsh, but get her to stop.

Find your local gym and try to find a pass of some sort so you both can go in together and work out.

Good luck!

is it badly wrong! you dint have to do that just because she is getting fat,wrinkly and smokes and doesn't exercise. you must bear in your mind that beauty has nothing to do with a relationship..if you love someone you dint love her just because of her beauty although most People prefer for it but what they dint know is that its useless because it will fade as time goes by and age is getting older..in your wife case why you cant talk to her in a nice way that she dint feel insulted..?why cant you tell her to watch her diet and spare time to exercise to avoid sickness dint tell her because you dint want her to become fat its not a good approach to a wife .just tell her that you are Concern about her health...its not a valid reason for you to leave her just because of that...you dint loved somebody only because she is sexy and beautiful OK.

If you find yourself falling out of love with her over looks, then it was probably never true love in the first place. Be tactful and suggest that you both join an excercise class or take up a sport.

Which part of 'for better or for worst" didn't you understand?you agreed to all of that when you put that ring on her finger. till death due you part. If your falling out of love with her you should tell her that the fact that she's getting on the heavy side and, not to mention it's hurting your eyes to look at her. Maybe that will motivate her to go to the gym and stop smoking. Good Luck.

You ever try working out with her? Maybe tell her your concerned for her health and want to live a healthy life with her. People like you are why the divorce rate is so high. Instead of actually working to find some type of comrpomise, you just want to bail. You ever think she looks at your balding head, beer gut, and smelly feet and think to leave you??

Yes. A marriage is something you need to work at. Why don't you start an exercise regime and hope she follows suit. Pick a date for giving up together and make a go of it. Remember that cancer's really painful and she's got two risk factors already. Good luck. I'm sure you'll relish the results.

I won't say you're wrong for wanting to leave, and the reason I say this is because we men are very visual creatures. If we are not visually stimpulated, there's going to be a problem Houston! But what I will say is this, as a husband, you owe it to yourself and your wife to at least TRY and pull her back in. Tell her and even show her how all of this is affecting you and anyone else that she is in contact with. Hope all works out...