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GLBT's: do you find straight people to be a bit bland and boring?

I'll be honest. I do. Most of my straight friends have kind of rigid, dull, boring lives. I just want to grab them and run with them and tell them to live a little . Throw a little caution to the wind once in awhile. Let your hair down. Be natural, be REAL.

I also notice that I don't have a lot to talk about with them, because our lives are so different. They're all tied down with a spouse, and kids, and a mortgage and all that. I don't. But, as much as they think I'm "missing out", I don't feel that way. I feel like they think they must conform to a society where it's expected to follow in the footsteps of others. Me, I'm a free spirit and I love it.

Anyone else's thoughts?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Oh come on, Dearest, Truck and I are tied down with a spouse, a mortgage, four Cat-kids, medical bills and we usually are in bed by midnight on weekends.

    I hate to disagree with you, my Son, but my life is pretty darned REAL here and you can't get much more free spirited than an Matronly Lesbian Otter Lady in a Silly Hat (well I don't think so....:)

    Remember not *all* of us are in our 20's, my Darling.

  • 1 decade ago

    Not usually. I find it funny that all the gay people come to my house all the time like they have nothing better to do but hang out with straight people. We're all just people and we all have different lives but we like nice friends and everyone likes to have fun and socialize, atleast most do. Unless you have something in common with another person you would probally think they are bland boring or not your cup of tea per say. I think you should just go on your merry way since others seem too boring for you, it could be the people you have met disagree with your lifestyle, there's plenty more that don't so why worry about it.

  • sobus
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    I disagree with you. First, i'm no longer frightened of GLBT human beings. i do no longer like it whilst whilst they hit on me and that they understand i'm right now. it somewhat is only being disrespectful to me. If i understand a girl i like is lesbian I comprehend that and don't make a pass on her. it somewhat is the right issue to do. I never dry hump something in public or dedicate any perverted acts in public. I even have never more advantageous a clean word to offend gay human beings, those words have been there long in the previous i become born. and that i've got not got faith in God. as a result i wouldn't in any respect inform you that God hates you. Please do no longer Corral all right now human beings into one single team. i'm right now. and that i do no longer belong to the gang you purely defined. so a procedures as i'm in contact. i do no longer care in case you're gay. as long as you're satisfied and not killing or harming all people else. I say "stay and enable stay".

  • FTW
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    I was just talking to my friend about this last night. I feel the same way. My str8 friends are all 9 to 5, go to bed early, rarely go out on the weekends folks. When they do go out, it's to do the same old thing. Nobody wants to try the new restaurant, or go to a different club, or even go to a comedy club for a laugh. It's sad.

    I'm tied down in terms of owning a house and paying a mortgage and bills....but I still try to have fun when and where I can. I love to try new stuff and despite being shy, I love to meet new people, and go new places.

    I'm glad I'm a big ol' dyke!

    How ya doin hottie?

    Source(s): cold november purr
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I wouldn't call them boring necessarily, some of my best friends have really exiting lives and are very unique people. That being said, I can kinda see where your coming from, not that they are boring but that... the usual "american dream" is. I see life so differently than my straight parents... now THEY can be boring.

  • 1 decade ago

    You're obviously young and single.

    Me and my partner and most of the couples that we know who basically live as if they were married, are very settled down and "boring".

    So is the same of most young single straight people. They too live "wild" and carefree, and why shouldn't they? They are, in fact, young and single.

    I submit that Gay, straight or crooked, cohabitating couples tend to settle down, for the most part.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Most of my straight friends with kids I find boring...other than that, I only hang out with one lesbian couple. I don't think it's sexuality that makes people interesting or not.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Dont generalize all straight people. Most of the gay people I know are pretty boring. So that can go both ways.

  • 1 decade ago

    Straight people are afraid of us. They would never let their hair down even for a little bit for fear that something might happen that would go against their insane belief system that if they sneeze wrong they will go to hell if they don't ask for forgiveness before you have time to say bless you...

  • 1 decade ago

    Yeah,very boring mate

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