Ever noticed how those saying parents should teach sex ed never actually teach it or pathetically little2 late

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Anyone actually notice pretty much all those parents saying it their job to teach sex ed, or its parents job etc etc and that teachers or governments etc should not do it.


NEVER ACTUALLY TEACH ANY SEX ED, OR UTTLEY PATHETICIALLY LITTLE WAY TOO LATE USUALLY AFTER THEIR KIDS HAVE SLEPT ARUND HAVE THE SCHOOL.


And then its only (this I got from mates) stuff like


2nd hole from the back son

Or girls get cursed once a month.

or parents talking about using french letters (ill bet several made morons out of themselves asking postmen what a french letter was)

And all those are the ones whos kids are all getting pregnant usually from things like thinking pulling out works as only told about ejaculation and never about precum (where willies leak sperm all the time they are hard)

Or from sperm on fingers during foreplay as parents never even acknowledged foreplay existed.

Whilst those who are happy schools teach as much as poss teach at home too and boost & check it

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Depends on the parents !

practicalwizard · Answer

some parents might fail at this, miserably. let me ask you something...did your parents go over with you all the options? i mean, did you learn what a dirty sanchez is from your dad? sex ed is also a social rite of passage, no? you learn certain things from your friends. the technical stuff...protection and std's, birth control etc. etc. should be taught by parents. i think the problem is that most parents don't look at their children as being ready for sex ed. kids are practicing earlier than they expect so they wait too long. parents should realize that they need to be talking with their kids about this stuff sooner. i don't necessarily have an issue with sex ed in school. that's because, as a parent, at that time i could take the opportunity to give my own input. i would certainly want to be notified when this is going to be taking place. i would like involvement. i don't think schools should get into the moral issues of things. you said sex is perfectly moral, well, i might agree with you but i don't think the school system should be getting into that with my kid. that's definitely my job.

Smiley · Answer

Well, it is not a perfect world and not every parent knows how to teach their children what exactly they need to know. This is sad, yes. 

I agree that schools need to teach children about sex. We aren't living in the days where kids get married at 13 just as their hormones are kicking in, we are living in the days when kids shouldn't even think about marriage and especially not about having kids until they are out of school, working and making a living for themselves. In the meantime, kids need to learn about how to control sexual impulses. Parents should teach kids about morality and resposibility, schools need to teach children about health and science first of all, then plan b (birth control and prevention of STDs) and plan c (what do do if you get pregnant, get somemone pregnant or get an STD).  I wish schools would also go a step further and educate kids on how to control sexual impulses, but perhaps that may be asking too much. 

I grew up in the 90s where they would scare you death about STDs and getting pregnant and leave it up to you what do do about protecting yourself (abstinance or condoms). We were taught the risks and anyone who ended up getting pregnant or getting an STD in their teens was either a clueless idiot or just had very bad luck and at least had the sense to think about what to do realistically. What happened to that education?

Anonymous · Answer

wow thats a long question lol. but i think it should be the parents job AND the schools job. there has been sex ed at schools for years now and its still crap. i will be teaching all my children about sex and i wont be holding back either, i dont care if they get embarrased, they have to hear it and id rather have a potentially awkward hourlong talk (with reminders slipped in now and again afterwards) with my child than have a 14 year old son/daughter whith a baby. i dont trust anyone to talk to my child about sex incase they leave anything out. but there are children who's parents wont tell them everything they need to know about sex possibly because these parents dont know everything (im not saying i know everything but i know alot from school - i did advanced biology and trained as a nurse - and from a youth group i was in which trained me and other young people to talk to other young people about sex ed). for these children who wont get the education they need from their parents, there needs to be a system in place that will teach them effectively about sex.
i was in a great youth scheme which taught young people (16-21 year olds) to speak to other young people (14-20year olds) about sex in schools and youth clubs etc. this allowed it to be taught in a relaxed atmosphere and we were given all the info we needed. i think there should be more of this in place as well as education in schools and from parents.

Loulla · Answer

wow! 

Long question...I think parents do need to take responsibility for teaching kids about sex. 

My parents were waaaaaaay to embarrassed for th ins and outs of sex, so my mum told me about puberty and body changes. She had to get my aunt to talk to me about proper sex itself though, and all the different ways you can catch an STI or get pregnant. 
I was lucky I had my aunt there, and she laid all the playground rumours to rest! Looking at it though, I think it's down to parents to either give the talk if they can, or have their child go to someone who can explain the hard facts to them clearly and correctly. School education isnt good enough! When I had sex education at school, they gave me a sanitary pad, and a book about tampons. Woop-de-do.

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Anonymous · Answer

Howbeit natural first, spiritual afterward
Nature-u-all life is sex-u-ally transmitted.
Spirit-u-all life is grace-us-ly transmitted.
Eternal life cannot lie (law) nor die (law).

Be ye reconciled (thru J-->C)--->to God.

Be ye as perfect (graceful merciful peaceful) as God is

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