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wxyz asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

Do you really like ALL your friends?

I have a "friend" and I don't really like her. She annoys the crap out of me. She always calls me and ALWAYS wants to hang out. She thinks we are pretty good friends, but she dosen't even know me becasue I can't really be myself around her cause she is super sensitive. She gets offended easily but treats others badly and thinks it's ok. She trys to be the center of attention way too often.

I would totally dismiss her but our husbands are really good friends.

Any advice?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Yeah.. I like all my friends. I will not treat them as friends if I don't like them. I have also the same situation, i don't treat her really as friends but she thinks that we're friends. I can't show the true me because she will be mad if I show true personality. That i'm a clown that always laugh and have a great sense of humor. Whenever I joke her, she would stop talking then she will be angry to me. Actually, she's the bestfriend of one of my closest friend. I don't really want to be with her but I must because my friend will think that I'm bad.. I think you must show the true you. Talk to her and say what you really feel. If you dislike her, tell her. So that she will know what you feel to her. Don't worry about what she will think, at least you released what's inside you... :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It depends, I have a friend exactly like that, but you have to learn to roll with the punches. I know i really like her deep down but she does annoy me. But i have a habbit of really pushing people away and then ending up with not so many friends. I think if you can't be yourself around her you might want to tell her, or try and ease away from her. Don't do it immediatly and walk off to another group but gently. Just remember there are probably things she doesn't like about you so try not to act too harsh.

  • 1 decade ago

    I am SO with you there honey. My ex-husband had a friend that he was really close with, and his wife drove me up the friggin wall. Unfortunately in a case like that, you just got to keep the interaction at a minimum. To answer you initial question.... No, I don't really like all my friends... and I don't have many.. .I am such an introvert... :(

  • 1 decade ago

    Does your husband know? tell him to talk to his friend and to tell her [or you tell her ]that u like her alot and shes cool but your busy and have things to do and all those calls interup you from your life. Also tell her you grew up in a diffrent place and you are more tuff so don't take things offensive. and that you find it ruff what she tells other people.

    just talk to her, you got nothing to lose. if shes that much of a burden then your hubby should understand.

  • 1 decade ago

    try keeping yourself busy with errands so that you're left with no time to hang out with her and you wouldn't even be lying to her

    and such people are not called friends

    friends are people you like to spend your time with

  • 1 decade ago

    We dont like all r friends,v like them if they r gud 2 us,I think u shud also behave like her(temporarily) ,from then on she wont b like that

  • 1 decade ago

    you can't always be a hypocrite around her... so i say confront her... well if she gets offended you don't care its better off with her than being friends with her right??

  • 1 decade ago

    We all make sacrifices for our loved ones. She may not like you either, but tries to maintain a relationship with you in order to please her hubbby too!!

  • 1 decade ago

    hello?! don't make her think that u like her. that's called backstabbing. if u don't like ur friend then don't be friends with her.

  • 1 decade ago

    no, i dont really like all of my friends becoz some of they is "plastic"

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