Break-up Dilema?

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How many of you guys have been through a break up before. Toinght was my night - and I don't know if i'll ever recover. In two years when we're 18 she was planning on living up here. But she told me that things "aren't going to work between us". I've payed dozens of dollars for phone bills and gifts to her and she wont even wait another couple years. It is the most awkard thing feeling in the world, because our relationship was all we mostly ever talked about. Please, if you can help me find a way.

Update:

Also. she is the cousin of one of my classmates in 2nd Pd. I know it'll get around quickly and I'm just under so much stress now.

Sharon M · Accepted Answer

it feels horrible now but in the long run it's for the best.  we try to but we can't make people love us and that is not a reflection bad on us it is just the way things went.  and you can't see it now, but believe me it is better not to be with someone who isn't as into you as you are into them.  

as for people knowing, what are you going to do?  when you are out in public put on your game face and go about life and one day you will meet someone who will return your feelings.  if you want a good laugh, watch Swingers.   it won't make the pain go away but it may put a smile on your face.

private · Answer

You will recover. Promise. It's okay to be bummed for a few days, but don't dwell on it. Eventually you'll move on and one day you'll find THE One

Anonymous · Answer

so you're 16? hun, u have soooooo much u have yet to go through....trust me, don't ride on this for too long cuz you're just gonna hurt yourself and miss out on a lot if u continue to dwell on it.

Anonymous · Answer

Alright get a girl that will talk

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