has something changed or am I just imagining things?

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ok we are together since last september, I know it's not much, but I love him, he has all what I wanted, I 've never been happier with a man, I just feel so happy when i'm with him!
the probem is that we are not in the same city, but It has never been a big deal for us, as he used to call me everynight, and we traveled to each others a lot
now I feel that something has changed since we met the last time, 3 weeks ago, He doesn't call me at night anymore, he just call me when he find my missed calls or my text messages...
he has never said that he loves me, and I've never said that either, because I want to be sure of his feelings first, and also I think it's early to talk about that, isn't it?
I don't have a specific question, but what is your comment? 
don't say that we should break up because of the distance stuff, i can't break up with him, and I'm sure he doosn't want to!
he also has troubles at work, so may be this is bothering him?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Of course he doesn't want to! He loves you very much. The reason could possibly be that you are very reserved to express your feelings. I think you should be more open. I don't say you call him right now saying I love you, of course.

Sassafrass · Answer

It is NOT too early to speak of love...I think it's too late to talk about it if you haven't yet.  Although his job problems could be keeping him from calling you I really think he's lost complete interest.

Don't worry, some companies are now giving 3 days off to grieve after a break-up. Maybe you can get this!  Of course, they're in Japan....

Anonymous · Answer

3-4  months is about how long it takes for a guy to lose interest.  He is not in love with you. As long as you cling to these crumbs and give him what he wants he will let you . And if you do and you get hurt you should have known better. Move on.

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has something changed or am I just imagining things?

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