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Anyone else having this much of a problem?

I have just returned from my ultrasound today and its got me thinking. Maybe I dont belong having children, maybe its just not in the cards for me. Maybe I should just give up completely.

This is my 2nd molar pregnancy and since Ive already had 4 misscarraiges already as well this is got me thinking that maybe somethings wrong with me or that maybe Im cursed and should just stop trying.

Im completely crushed and feeling totally locked out. I dont speak the language here, and all my friends and family except my husband are halfway around the world. And I dont feel like that he really gets it.

Thanks for reading, sorry if Im rambling I just dont know what else to do anymore :(

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Im sorry that your feeling like that but sometimes you just have to carry on in order to reach your goal. Have you got anybody that you can talk to?? What abot your partner. I know that they find it difficult also but tend to keep their feeling to themselves as they dont want to upset you. Maybe you shpuld talk to him and explain how you are feeling and maybe this can help. Also go and see your gp he can put you in contact with support groups and also do a search on the web to find support groups, you are not alone, there are people out there willing to listen and help you. Hope everything goes ok and dont be too hard on yourself. Good luck.xx

  • 1 decade ago

    I'm sorry you are going through this. Hopefully this will give you some hope, I know a woman that had 5 miscarriages but she finally had a baby about a year ago. Anything is possible don't give up hope just yet. Have you tried invetro or maybe a surrogate??

  • SKCave
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Honey, don't give up. We had 5 miscarriages (and a lot of fun trying) before we had our son. We've since had two more, a boy and a girl, now all grown up (our oldest is 30). My wife was really depressed about the miscarriages, but, as committed Christians, we prayed about it and it all worked out in the end. I'm going to post a prayer for you, which you can acceot or not as you choose. Father God, please be with this lady now. Give her Your peace and Your love, and help her to know that she is in no way cursed. PLease, in Your wisdom put right whatever is causing her to miscarry. I ask this in Jesus' Name. Amen.

    God bless you, and I hope this helps.

  • gg
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    My cousin had 3 miscarriages before having 2 successful pregnancies.

    Are you taking prenatal vitamins LONG before you start trying to conceive? You should be doing this.

    Otherwise, don't think that it was just "meant to be"...you might need some additional help from your doctor, but you'll probably have a few successful pregnancies in your life.

    Don't worry.

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  • Lils
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    hunny ur not cursed, some just need to work a lot harder then others. It always fun to keep trying.

  • 1 decade ago

    talk to your gyn about this or another doctor. they will be able to help you much better.

  • 1 decade ago

    I believe god will give it to you when he is ready.

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