What do you do when you realise your just not cut out for relationships?

Go and live alone, have a great time!

I would do some inner work...

Sure we cannot really have much control over others, but we do have control over our own attitudes, thinking, emotions and behavior.

Look back and try to notice if there were any patterns...

Do you feel that it is tough to understand what a woman really wants?

Or are there any patterns where u discovered an area that you surely need to work on? It is nothing to feel bad about becoz none of us is perfect. I, for example, found that I have always become too emotionally dependent/needy with the person I would be in love with. This is not even attractive as I discovered...and the guys I was with always pulled away from it. Maybe I dated the wrong guys....but it is also possible that some of my own qualities pushed them away?

There is always room for improvement...

Maybe you could read some books on whatever area you'd like to know about....

Maybe a book about what love is, what a healthy relationship should be like, or what women really want, or read up on a trait u want to develop in yourself....

The sky's the limit. Knowledge is always power.

I think u should take the time to be single. Dont push yourself in another relation.

I am such a romantic, and so relationshio-oriented, and YET have felt the same way as you have - that I am not cut out.

I do believe that if we have done our best...and it's still not ours, then it was never meant to be. so don't regret. just do your best.

I felt this way when I first met my husband.! I was tired of the games and meeting the wrong guy. I was determined to never date again! Then I met my hubby. He had an extremely difficult time because I was not interested in dating ANYONE! He just kept trying until I gave in. That was 23 years ago! Just give dating a break and quit looking for the "Right Girl". That way you will do the things you enjoy doing and somehow you will meet her. This way you will probably have at least one thing in common! Either something you enjoy doing or someone you both know.

Good Luck!

Remember good things come to those who wait!

omg! I am so there with you! Only I have a husband and a daughter!!! He's a super man, but it is a bleak relationship right now. I think I was never meant to settle with anyone, and that's why I kept picking the wrong sort of man. Now I have the right guy, and it should work, right? I'm sorry I don't have an answer, but it was nice to get that off my chest.

btw I am trying to improve things with my hubby. Everyone says that it takes work.

Maybe you've just not found the right person yet. You said it goes wrong but you didn't say whether that was your fault or the other persons. If it's you then you need to change your ways, if it's them, like I said you haven't found the right person yet but you will. There is someone out there for everyone - I truly believe that. :)

just stay single and do the bills and stuff wait till ur on trak with the bills then start looking again or wait for someone to come to u

You either become a pimp, date other people, break up, because yall are not bounded to be together. And just forget about it. If yall break up and she wants u back. Ignore her. And DATE OTHER PEOPLE. And have fun. hey this is coming from a girl. SO it maybe wrong.

Stay single then....

I have been single for a while now...

*Commitment scares me at the mo*

I'm sure I'll settle down one day...Just gotta look for the right person!

Be yourself. It will happen in time. Hey, I was 28 when I met my husband. I was well past sick of dating and relationships.

Maybe take responsibility and work on yourself? Ever see a beautiful garden? If it wasn't carefully tended to, meaning, if it wasn't constantly watered, weeded etc. it would not be that beautiful after all....

Stay single