My husband is very trustworthy about people?

You should talk to him about it. He needs to understand that you are his wife and you should come first before anyone. I am sure he would be hurt if it were the other way around. So your best bet would be to talk about this with him. Best of luck!

maybe all the time he spends "waiting" can translate to mean that he's thinking on the matter as it pertains to you and him. However, you should always be his top priority! As for him being too nice to people it seems he's a great guy but as his wife try and make him realise that everybody isnt as great a guy as he is. i think i got that from college. wish you guys the best

I don't think that your issue with your husband is that he is too trusting of others.

It sounds like you have a problem with his priorities, as he apparently puts helping others before doing things with his family.

Perhaps he is worried about his image with others and feels that he needs to please them, whereas he may feel more comfortable and accepted by his family.

This is a guy thing and it takes them a while to get out of it. Let him know how you feel, communication is the key to everything!

Tell him he needs to get his top priorities straightened out or he will have problems.

tell hi when he married you he chose to put you first. then tell him if he cant find the time then you will do them yourself or hire someone to do them because your not going to stand by and be second anymore.

your husband helps other mean he is realy nice man you creat faith about you and speak your problem

Explain the obvious to him and see what his answer is.

the best thing to do is talk it out you can perhaps compromise

get him into therapy