My Girlfriend keeps saying that she is not sure about us. I don't know what to do?

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Ok so this is what happened. My gf is the jealous type and it is really annoying sometimes cause I have friends who are girls. So a couple of times I made up a story telling her that I got a gift from another girl. I told her both times that I was just kidding and it was a lie. She got really mad at me and she still is for 4 whole months. She keeps saying she does not trust me anymore becuase of what I did to her. She has not gotten over it . This is the sole reason that She is not sure of marrying me anymore and that she was before this!! I dont know what to do.

I have never cheated on her ever or lied to her about anything else. I have said  couple of white lies here and there but always told her that I lied later. We have been dating for three years steady.

Invisigoth · Accepted Answer

that's what happens when you lie to someone and play headgames with them.  They don't trust you.  And when they don't trust you, they don't want to continue being in a relationship with you.

You brought this on yourself.  You knew your girl was the jealous type and then you played a game where you incited that jealousy.  When you are dating someone who has a jealous temperment, they have to work on their issues on their own and you don't go out of your way to do things that you know will make them jealous.

Jealousy is a sign of insecurity and a lack of trust.  When the person has no reason to be jealous, then the problem is theirs and they have to work on their problems so they can live a more fulfilling life.  When the person has a reason to be jealous, then they know that they are in a relationship with someone that they can't trust and they either need to work out the problem with the person or leave.

defenseonly · Answer

You need to break it off, what's the sense, do you believe it change not really, people cant change people until they want to re-create themselves without the influence of others especially in love.

so you need to move forward dont stay in neutral stop with this little stories and child games what are you "mattel"?

I am striaght forward and honest, once lines get crossed it's time to go, you start question your love for another, you opened "Pandora's Box" Leave, there is no shortage of men or women, for any of us, why waste time, is she that good? Get my drift?

My life is too too short to play games with a man, I am on the road to makes sure I can provide someone what they need and leave emotional and spirtual baggage out of it, so go, find time for you , clear your mind and do your thing when a woman is ready your life is good until then proceed hun

Sooperman · Answer

Guess you went one lie too far. You can only fault yourself.

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