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I love him so much, so why does he treat me like garbage?

My ex broke up with me to go out with another girl. I was crushed because it was unexpected and we had such a great relationship. We spent alot of time together. We stayed up from morning to night talking about everything. He even wanted me to live with him. The day we broke up I was crushed and he appologized and said he messed up. After that we became close friends to the extent it felt like we was going out. We did the same exact things that we did when we were together and I was happy again. His birthday came and I bought him da bike he always wanted. And the week after he stop callin and answering my calls. He wouldn't even text me bak. I finally catched up wit him on myspace he said he forgot all about me and dat I was trippin 2 much for him. He told me had a girlfriend. And I asked him never to speak to me again. I cried every night for 2 and 1/2 months str8. I finally started to get over him until he called me up and sed i was the best gf ever. Then da next day, he stoppd calln

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  • 1 decade ago
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    He and his words are worthless. You don't need him to tell you, what you already know that.

    You got along with out him, before you met him, you can get alon without him now!!

    So it's time to let tell him, "you" are the one who's decided he's finished, tell him not to call anymore.

    There's some guy out there who'll match you, not use you, someone who's going to return your love and generousity.

    Stop wasting your time with ppl who humiliate, lie, treat you like garbage.

    He can only do it, if you allow him too. So, be strong, tell him to loose your number, forget your name, disappear, you plan to go somewhere in life and he's dead weight.

    Then go find the guy who'll raise you up, not drag you down.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think he was correct in his assessment that you were "trippin 2 much for him." He is obviously not deserving of you, even though you had some great times. I'm sure it is difficult, but please try to move on, even if he does try to come back. It's apparent that he is done with your relationship for whatever reason, and that you should follow his lead by ceasing communication.

  • 1 decade ago

    sounds like this guy is immature and is playing games with you don't let him play. you be in control of the game and just move on. you can find better men. Yes men you are talking to a boy now who is playing games with you he is not a man. stop playing games with him also. you know you only want to be friends with him so that you might have a chance to get with him if he breaks up with his girlfriend you want to be h is string if you know what i mean its over. you cried enough for him move on. he is to immature anyways who would want someone like that . he is just giving false hope that there can be a relationship between you two. just move on i say get over it . find a man. there are plenty of men out there. trust me he is not the one. ignore him don't answer his calls. forget him he is not worth any of your time.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He keeps leaving you when he thinks he finds someone "better". your like his safety net whenever he breaks up with his girlfriend. he doesnt like to be single. but he doesnt deserve you. find a guy that will love you just as much as you love him. Don't pick up his calls and try to block them. Also, delete him on myspace so you wont be tempted to go back with him. He's just using you. Good luck!

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  • 1 decade ago

    He doesn't respect you. I would never call him again, except to get the bike back. I'm sure he will give it back. If not then he really is a loser. You are a good person and deserve better.

  • 1 decade ago

    Because you let him.Dump this guy and make up some ground rules ,if a guy breaks the rules dump him.You are in command.

  • Nessie
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Thats what you get when you mess around with a man who isnt married to you.

  • 1 decade ago

    Drop him, the end!! He obviously doesn't care, and he's going to continue to play with your heart, and that's not acceptable!! Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    cuz he is asshole and doesnt now how 2 treat a gurl.....so 4get about him he is just trying 2 hurt u n u should not let do that 2 u.....

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Quit fallin for his lines/lies. He has you on the hook and you need to break the line and swim away now.

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