How do spice up our Sexual Life?

Yeah ... conversation ... do something to make him/her laugh ... read a good book ... The Clitoral Truth ... Everything you Know about Sex is Wrong ... Sexual reflexology ... Pure Sex (The Intimate Guide to Sexual Fulfillment) ... get to know his/her body ... show/tell him/her what feels good to you ... ask him/her what feels good to them ... handcuffs ... blindfolds ... feathers ... fur mittens ... laughter ... just a gentle touch when they least expect it ... sex in unusual places ... the biggest thing is foreplay ... and life should be the foreplay.

Many years ago, I sliced up a mess of jalapeno peppers for a batch of chili I was making. I guess I didn't wash my hands too well afterwards, 'cuz shortly after retiring with my then girlfriend, all hell broke loose. Talk about spicing up your sex life... Trust me, it really worked - in a contorted sort of way.

At Spencers, they have awesome books for spicing up the sex life.

http://www.spencersonline.com/luv-stuff_books/

I'd recommend either Cosmo's Guide to Red Hot Sex, or any of the Kama Sutra books. Good luck!

Play strip poker together. It's fun.

do it in the shower if you haven't already. Try new things/positions out (read kama sutra). Send him dirty text messages when he's at work or outside. Dress up, play games.

I'm being serious here. One night invite him to your house and dress in striper clothes infront of him.....Only if you have a good enough body to wear that stuff or just kiss him a lot if your a good kisser.

Role playing is hott.

Or try sneaking into the shower with him.

Waking him up for morning sex it a favorite for all guys ((as long as your teeth are brushed!))

Ask him if he has any fantasies that he's always wanted to act out.

Go other places like a Hotel

Outside during a wind storm or a rain storm

go camping and do it

We are together for like going 3 years. (we are staying together for 2years plus)I want to spice up,in bedroom.(he's great, just want to inject more life in that area)He's 23 and i'm 21. Any good suggestion / Tips i can leave him wanting more? =P

use toys, massage, different places, positions, outfits etc.

If it gets boring to the point where you just want to go out on a limb, try out a variety of fetishes.

You could work on your command of the English language,I know that would be a big turn on for me.

Also, you could do fun outdoorsy active stuff together. You'll both feel better and that's a big turn on.