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Help me! i hate him, but he's always behined me.....?
well a guy likes me(coz he keeps staring and running behined me). but i like someone else and we are going around and this guy(who runs behined me) is sweet but not in that ways i dont want to hurt him as he's suffered a trauma of losing his pal, so help me coz my bf also is fed up of him now... and i have to cool him when he sees him.
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- Destiny BLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
Have your boyfriend ask this guy if he and a date would like to go to lunch, a game, etc., with you and him (your boyfriend). The other guy will get the hint and you may make a good friend!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I would suggest trying to be a bit tactful with this guy.
Take him aside and tell him that you love your boyfirend and he is making you feel uncomfortable when he persues you infront of your boyfriend. Tell him you are happy to be friends but draw the line with him so he knows where he stands and doesn't get on your BF's nerves.
If he doesn't take the hint then your only option is to be rude and tell him to leave you alone and that you don't want to speak to him or have him approach you at all otherwise you'll take it further!
Do you have a student welfare co-ordinator? If you do I would suggest bringing it up with them because this guy needs to stop giving you unwanted attention, afterall it is a form of harrassment!
Good Luck!
- SurvivorLv 61 decade ago
tell the guy that you don't appreciate him harrassing you and you already have a boyfriend. If he continues, file a complaint against him. You may also want to consider buying some mase in case he tries something stupid. Also try not to travel or go places alone if possible until you're comfortable.
- 1 decade ago
Okay, what are you talking about this guy runs behind you? Are you even for certain he likes you in the first place? That's about as lame as the saying "he's mean to you because he likes you". Just because he stares at you and "runs behind you" doesn't necessarily mean he likes you. And why don't you just tell him "i don't like you". In your questions you stated "i hate him"...So would'nt it be a little easier to tell him if you hate him? That's the only answer for your question. What else are we supposed to tell you?
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- 1 decade ago
It sounds like you have a super sweet stalker. I think you should give him a little chat and explain how you should only be friends and you're really uncomfortable with what he's doing. Say you "understand" his situation, but this behavior needs to stop.
- 1 decade ago
Be honest but firm. Tell him he makes you uncomfortable when he constantly glares at you and follows you around. If he continues then it's time to get a teacher or a councilor involved.
Safety first.
- PEGGY SLv 71 decade ago
Tell the guy that he is causing arguments between you and your bf, and you would appreciate it if he left you alone to prevent this from happening.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
you have to hurt his little feelings he will get over it he is probably just using the poor me thing to make you feel sorry for him.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
say u have to tell him before ur bf does