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Age in dating...?

I so have a slight issue...

I'm a pretty down-to-earth guy, and I recently (somewhat reluctantly) walked into a relationship with someone else. It's an online relationship.

She's 31 and has two kids.

I'm 20, no kids, don't party or go out or anything but yeah.. I like to enjoy life.

My question is... what should I do? I'm reluctant about this relationship (it's only 4 days old...) and she hasn't known I've existed for more than 5 days. I hold a hope in it just because I don't want to lose a friend and I don't want anyone hurt, but I don't know if I'll be able to get over the age thing + the fact that she has 2 kids...

What do I do?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    i think age dont matter when it comes to love... the question is what you feel for that girl really strong? if you dont party that a great thing it just means that you have other ways to have fun and you are young and if you cant get over that age problem i think you will meet someone that your going to like...you should have a picture so i can see how you look =)

  • 1 decade ago

    I think that you should keep the relationship if you really care about each other and live close to each other. My grandpa married my grandma when she was 35. He was only 24. So it doesn't matter. I had an affair with a 45 yr-old once. We never officially hooked up because she had children and was afraid that I could not survive her past because she used to be into prostitution, but I still liked her. She got out of it eventually, got married and had several children. But that was by an ex husband of her's.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think that you shouldn't continue with the relationship since you guys prolly both live far from eachother and the age difference, the children.etc etc there's way too many factors going on there that wil hurt the relationship so its better to leave it b4 anyone gets too attached

    Source(s): omg can someone pleasseeeee answer my question i need some advice!
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well my dad is married to someone who is nearly half his age... :I but still, they get along fine.

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