Hey Ladies -- Rich Guys or Broke Guys?

i'm so glad my wife stays with a guy who treats her good and is broke

I've never dated a rich guy, or a broke one. I've always been with (and am now happily married to one) geeky sweeties who could hold down a middle class job and managed their money well. They treated me respectfully and loved me for who I was. Personally I think it pays off to lived a grounded, down-to-earth life... less drama, more real love. I've always wondered why women put up with holes... Having love, respect, and genuine happiness in a healthy relationship are so much more valuable than a bunch of cash and an empty heart and life. If I had to do it over again I wouldn't have it any other way. It's a rich life.

I cant pick either. sorry i hate to be that girl.... but i wouldn't dated a d##ckhead, no matter how much money he had you would always feel cheap for dating someone for their money...and I wouldn't like to be treated like a queen (how could he if he was broke anyway)...I like to be in a relationship as an equal I have worked extremely hard to be where I am and made many sacrifices so I would like to date a guy on my level. That's probably why I'm single ha ha

Any of the men I've ever dated who were rich were also very pompous. I seem to be a magnet for the broke ones. But the guy who isn't rich and loves you will still love you when he becomes rich, if he has the mindset that he wants to be successful.

neither...

i dont want a guy to treat me like im worth nothing, even if he does have a lot of money,

but i dont want a guy to treat me like im the only thing that matters in his life...thats a liittttlllleee too clingy.

id rather have an equal relationship...it doesnt matter how much money the guy has

=)=)

This definitely relates to the question I just posted!! I am kind of broke but would treat her like a queen but her husband is a famous football player and treats her like ******* ****!! So hopefully she will want to be with me!

Well one option is to marry and divorce the rich guy and take half his money and then go get your poor soulmate that loves you and will treat you good and then you'll have money from the divorce. Problem solved. You're Welcome. :o)

Oh and with the rich guy don't have children...divorce CAN be hard on them but not always.

as a guy --- better to have money --- love does not pay the bills and leaves very quickly when you are worried about making ends meet ---- you can live with the rubbish --- find yourself a lover ---- he will probably have a mistress ---- be excellent to each other

The broke loving one. I'll probably end up sucessful and we'll both be happy. If not, he'll love me even if Im a hobo =) lol

money does not provide happiness other than to those who can never find true happiness