if a wife is not getting attention at home and the husband knows this, should she go out and cheat?

I don't think she should but I think that's how it starts for out of women

It's simple instead of cheating why not leave him first that way you don't have to have guilty conscience.

If you really want things to work in your marriage and you say the husband knows about it tell him that you will look somewhere else and leave if the situation does not get better. You deserve to be treated with respect as well. Yet he deserves it too.

Cheating is never the answer. get help first if you can't solve the problem leave the situation then look somewhere else that way other people don't get hurt in the process.

A friend of mine that went to marriage counseling was taught that those that leave or cheat on their spouse are like an 80/20 plan. The 20 percent they find in the affair is all that was really missing. Doesn't seem worth loosing the whole marriage over an affair to me.

No. Just because you aren't getting what you want IN the marriage does not give you implicit permission to find it OUT side of the marriage. If you are so miserable with not getting all your wants and needs met, then get divorced and spare the person you married the nonsense.

People stupidly believe that marriage is going to give them everything they need. No one can do that for another. You have to be able to supply a few of your own needs, and realize that you are NOT the center of the universe...in marriage or out of it.

First and foremost, talk to your husband and give him the chance to change things....

After a resonable amount of time (30 days or more) if he hasn't changed, then give him an alltamatium Change or I'm leaving..

If he still doesn't change then leave him before you cheat..

Trust me, if you have to think twice about it, you have a heart and it will end up hurting worse after, because you'll feel quilty

No. She should develop the courage to completely end the relationship with the husband, spend some time alone to figure out why they no longer care for one another, and then seek a new, healthier, more compatible relationship.

No, they should go out together and talk and act like a couple trying to work on their marriage.

get together and talk things out, making a decision based on something that is hurtful to begin with and then doing it surely doesn't solve anything

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since the bank has all the money and my wallets empty, should i break into it and steal...

sounds just like your kinda logic.