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Which is greater?

Or which would make one the "bigger person"?

1) Granting forgiveness.

2) Refusing to grant forgiveness unless they ask for it.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    To err is human

    to forgive, divine.

    good question. One would think granting forgiveness would be the better - but god himself refuses to grand forgiveness unless we ask for it - and are we not supposed to emulate god?

    Source(s): "My goddess gave birth to your god"
  • 1 decade ago

    Granting forgiveness without asking is the greater deed.

  • 1 decade ago

    Granting forgiveness. The larger the wrong done, the "bigger" the person is for forgiving that person.

  • Troy B
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Granting forgiveness would be the "bigger person."

    Source(s): personal opinion
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  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    To err is human, to forgive is divine. Forgiving someone whether they ask for it or not is what the "bigger person" would do. It hurts you not to forgive, so do yourself a favor, if nothing else, and forgive the jerk.

  • 1 decade ago

    Which is smaller?

    granting forgiveness once and for all, never to do it again.

    granting forgiveness individually, for one at a time.

  • 1 decade ago

    Granting forgiveness.

    Mistaking is human. Repeating the mistake is devil like. Forgiving is heavenly.

  • 1 decade ago

    In my eyes, granting forgiveness. It takes a lot of courage to do that.

  • 1 decade ago

    1.

    Source(s): This atheist.
  • Gui
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Don't forget that God is both loving AND just.

    What would make a person just?

    1) Not punishing the murderer.

    2) Punishing the murderer.

    Obviously number 2!

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